Has your spouse(late 60;s)told you that she or he is finished with sex and you are welcome to get whatever you can, just as long as it doesn't interfere with home life?
I gave it that thought too, but she insisted that Sex is just a feeling that needs to be satisfied. We have already watched each other with others, so we have been able to separate our Love from sexual satisfaction. After discussing it , women were not allowed, siimply because of the baggage involved. My wifes genius idea was to get it out of my system with our gay friend. If I needed a bj that bad, he was willing to pick up the slack. She had been trying to get me to mix it up with him for years.