Consideration for others is a lot easier and a lot more rewarding if you're comfortable. There are reasons to be good to one another whether you have a holy absolute or a logical social benefit influencing your behaviour; the difference, if any, arises when you fall on times. I would guess - admittedly without evidence - that a belief in something intangible would give one less reason to abandon decency when times are hard for oneself. Makes me think of that Hierarchy of Needs thing. Anyone can be a nice person when they're well-fed and well-slept. It's when someone's hungry and tired that you find out whether they're a decent person or not; when there's far less to gain and far more to lose from letting someone go ahead of you in a queue or whatever.
I love this thread. I hope the OP gets "brainwashed" to the "dumb side" too. Even if just for the afternoon. I rarely look at the ages of people on here. I always assume people are my own age, so I was a little taken aback by the first post. It makes sense if he is that young. I had a "friend" (I didn't really like him anyways) when we were still 19/20 comment that the Catholic Church is a cult. And then when I said that my GF/Fiancee was a Catholic and I wanted to get baptized (away from everyone so I didn't put him on the spot) he told me to fuck off and "get out" (from a mutual friends birthday party). That is his specific /protestant uprising though. I guess my personal story's point is twofold: People can be jack-asses when they aren't sensitive (and I'm not saying you have to be wishy-washy all the time); and two, don't be a jackass when it comes to religion, cults, and "brainwashing".
with diligent study of the bible it will help you to put on a new personality 2 Corinthians 5:17 Consequently if anyone is in union with Christ, he is a new creation; the old things passed away, look! new things have come into existence. Ephesians 4:24 should put on the new personality which was created according to God’s will in true righteousness and loyalty and by putting on this new personality, it help you to enjoy the fruitage of the spirit joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, faith, mildness, self-control could be called "Brainwashing"