Oi, my member misses her lil'un so much :-(

So, my wife and I have been together for 15 years now.

I love her more and more every day. I simply cannot adequately explain with words how much I appreciate her, how attracted I am to her, or how endless my desire is to make her happy.

But, things always wax and wane. Entropy always marches on.

I just love to sex her and pleasure her. I just can not get enough of her little noises of enjoyment while we get down.

As we get older though, there are things that I am starting to miss so so much.

In the first few years of our amazing relationship she was on some medication that... well, in short... that made her much more comfortable with me slidin' into her rear.

Now, I am sort of a bumsex addict. And when I showed her how much fun her bum could be, she really, really enjoyed it. She was so into it, and having her ask me to put it in there, or telling me how much she loved it, was pretty much the hottest thing I have ever experienced.

Now though, she is off those medications, and we have talked about how she is just not as comfortable with the bumsex as she once was.

And I miss it so, so much.

I do not want to push her, or to make her feel bad for not giving up her butt as much as she once did...

...but arg and wah I miss it so much.

The last thing I want is to make her feel bad for not doing something that she is uncomfortable doing...

I hate that occasionally I feel a bit of resentment for her not trying to give up her butt to me as much as she once did. I love her, and I do NoT want her to feel as though she isn't enough for me.

I don't even know why I am posting this, but I guess I am just sad that I cannot bang her behind as often any more. It was without a doubt the best sex I have ever had. To this day I have never had orgasm(s) as intense as getting off in her backside.

I tried talking to her about this about a year ago. And I can tell she wanted to try to do more for me...

...but it hasn't really come through.

I just love her, and I hate that I feel this way.


Anyone have any ideas what I should do?

OMG that feeling of her O-ring sliding along my pole is absolutely unmatched.

 

I think you really need to sit down with her and talk it all through in the way of your sex life, seems she's willing partner and wants to please you.

Bottle of wine and a good talk is all you need.

 

And in the case that she gets in the right mood to try it again. REMEMBER that things have changed since your past love making. Her mindset has obviously changed. Her desire, comfort level, cravings are different. And her bum is definitely more sensitive than when enjoying every inch of you more often. SO, if it happens again (Best of luck), Be slow and gentle, lots of lube, and make it like a nice love making session that may trigger the great memories she has. Would be very easy to jump to your old pace right away. Anal is definitely one of the most amazing feelings I've ever had.

 

I totally understand! I started having issues with ed about eight years ago and when I couldn’t any longer get rock hard she cut me off from anal. That was about 6 years ago but last July I got an implant. Now, instant erection for as long as we want. Now, she says she doesn’t have the hormones for it because of menopause. We talked and I told her that she doesn’t know that unless she tried it again. She came to me and had picked a day for it. She said the house had to be empty in case she started screaming like she did once. She always had the biggest orgasms from it! Anyway the day came and she backed out but says that we will and I’m being as patient as I can. I feel that’s all I can do until she’s ready. We do talk about it from time to time. Good luck I feel your frustration.

 

Oh it's true.

Patience I must have. Young Padawan I must be.

Never know what the future holes.... er... holds, for all of us.

 

Ho-Ly Shit.

So now, a couple of weeks and a few days after I posted this lamentful post, my Beautiful, sexy Wife just surprised me out of no where with...


We used to party a lot. You know... "Party"... Had a lot of fun and enjoyed a lot of good music. But we havn't really done much of that lately...
Because of the recent "Pandemic" situation we found ourselves not working for a little while. And last night she just surprised me while we built our new Ikea King Size bed (oh my Galaxy, it's so good) with a bag of go-go funtimes.

...And after it got a bit later, and after go-go funtimes made it into us a good bit * * * she seduced me, and told me it was time for backdoor action once again...

Fuck my Faaace it was so good. I went down on her as we started our sexy session, and she encouraged me to loosen her up with a finger (and then two....). I eventually had two fingers almost knuckle deep in her backside little hole while my tongue grinded on her pinks. Ffs so hot, I f'in love to do that to her...

I was slow and gentle as I eventually started to get my throbber in there (BoyToy69's advice was definitely on point[but I knew I had to be easy at first]) ......
but after I got a little deeper and a little deeper, she just started backing her butt up on me, and then just started banging me with her butt.
Eventually I realized she was good for it, and started pounding her, right out to the tip man, and then all the way balls deep... and she just took it like a champ.

Eventually after she started fingering herself vigorously, she got off so loud as I just hammered away. And that did it for me.


Fuck I am reminded why I miss it so much. Dammit I've probably wanked it 10 times since yesterday thinking about it.


Man, I cannot get over eating her out and slowly fingering her butt until it was a little looser and a little looser.... Fuck she is so sexy I can't even.....


cripes....