I met a girl online. Everyone on the site was mean to her, so I reached out to her. We started emailing each other. She has no offline friends and no one likes her. Her family criticizes her a lot. She has been bullied her entire life and is depressed. She never went to college and is unemployed at age 35. I felt sorry for her. She weighs 230 pounds but dresses sexy. I think the things she wears are inappropriate. But I held my tongue for an entire year. I called her beautiful, intelligent, etc. She never said thank you. I even invited her to Manhattan for thanksgiving since her sister doent invite her. She never thanked me. Then a few days ago, she emails me, saying she broke up with her bf and will no longer have access to a computer. ''Oh well.'' Those were her last words. No thanks for your support, no I'll miss you, no you were a good friend, nothing. Just oh well. Turns out it was a lie as I found her on another website whining. She has the following beefs: People judge her appearance. They say she looks like a clown because she wears a lot of makeup for example. They say she dresses too sexy especially since she's obese. She whines that the ''skanks'' on Dancing with the Stars dress worse than she does. Wtf? What a dumbass. Those women are in shape and very toned. They are also entertainersn they don't dress like that in real life. I once innocently asked her if people were making a distinction for that reason and she was outraged. She hates men. A lot. She even joined a website called I Hate Men but was banned for being too negative. She thinks they're players, users, liars, cheaters, and sex addicted scumbags. But she meets losers off of datelines. Why go there to meet a man? And she should try to lose weight and stop dressing like a hooker. She's addicted to shopping. She only has 50 bucks to her name and is in debt due to shopping. Her coping strategies are eating, sleeping, and shopping. Oh those are great coping strategies, very healthy. I remember a couple things she said that annoyed me. First of all I told her I know of a girlwho has fucked 365 guys (one for everyday of the year) and she said ''now that's what I call a ho.'' I said ''youre always saying people are too judgmental.'' She said, ''well I think some people deserve to be judged.'' Wtf? Neither of them is hurting anyone. Society puts the three of us in the same category (but no one knows my business so I'm not judgred. I don't dress sexy. I dress like a hippie.) I thought that was so hypocritical. Secondly, she claims there's no cure for depression. You just have to cope with it. I know for a fact that depression goes into remission. I was clinically depressed for three years. Several family members and friends have been depressed. Everyone gets depressed. Is the whole world still depressed??
I can see how she frustrated you. Point is, you really don't know someone you never met in real life and so I guess neither the reason why a person stays in contact. Or to what extent she wanted sincere help.
It's to bad people get like that. For what ever reason they start getting picked on when young and it makes them bitter. The more they get picked on the more bitter they get, pretty soon they turn into the people they hate and pick on everyone they meet.
