always have been. the only difference is how they dress and carry themselves. people tend to forget how most folks reach sexually mature, child-bearing age before being legal adults. nothing sick, wrong, or perverted about liking 16 year old girls if they look like that. it's fucked up to take advantage of anyone, though. thats why the law is the way it is. not because its wrong to like younger chicks - but because they are more frequently/easily taken advantage of.
I don't remember girls being built like that when I was 16...I mean, I was curvy, but not THAT curvy yet. Look at that backside! I didn't reach that kind of curvy until I was maybe in my early 20's. Hormones anyone? But you're totally right too nesta, I think even just the way girls tend to dress anymore and carry theirselves in general shows off the body even moreso, whereas maybe when I was in school, they didn't wear things quite like that or act quite as sexually mature as they do nowadays? *laughs* Or maybe I was just naive and now I'm just getting older, can't believe what I'm seeing because I have kids of my own and don't want to think of my boys being around girls looking like that or my daughter looking like that at the same age? Haha!
Sarkozy has to be thinking "you dirty dirty middle aged man" not because he wouldn't do same, but because he wouldn't have done it so obviously. edit: btw, who is turning that into an image macro that says "Dat Ass"?
Must be a guy thing! I just wouldn't feel right checking out a guy that was under 18, I'd feel like a total perv!
its not a guy thing. plenty of guys feel bad about being attracted to underage girls this is because society tells you you aren't allowed to do this, that it's dirty or wrong. but it isn't human nature or biology. but maybe you're right. this is obviously a gross generalization but men in general tend to look for youth as a sexually attractive trait in a woman, and women tend to look for stability, security, and comfort in men as a sexually attractive trait. this easily explains why so many pretty young women end up with older, successful men. its simply evolutionarily advantageous. it doesnt feel so cold and formulaic when experienced, of course.
Very good points nesta...a youthful figure would signal fertility. I myself have always been attracted to older men, and it makes sense, because I knew I wanted stability, strength, security, experience. It was definitely a trait my husband possessed, which made him even more attractive to me when we were dating.
It seems that most men are older than there spouses. I am older than KC, although, not by much. about 5 years.
My husband is 4 year older than I am. Sometimes I feel like he's even older than that, and sometimes, even younger.
I bet KC could say the same thing. She is babysittin for the neighbors this week and I asked her if she went through their underwear drawer yet. I bet times like that she feels older.
*mumbles* Um, actually, I probably would have gone through their underwear drawer, try to see if they had anything interesting in there, you know, just out of curiousity. :leaving: Ooops!
see, that's what I say. I am very nosey. I cant help myself. I will get into your car (with you in the drivers seat) and pop your glove box right there in front of you. I will apologize and feel silly but its such a habit for me.
Haha! That's how I am. Very nosey. I'm one of those people who will go through your medicine cabinet when I use your bathroom. No reason really, just because I'm curious.