Nudity at Home

Finally, a woman who agrees with me on this subject. I don't understand either how a guy could be around nude girls or women and not get an erection. If my sisters had been naked around me all the time, I would've gotten an erection eventually, if not immediately.

And I don't think it's just guys who react that way. I've read posts from girls who peeked in on their brother while he was masturbating, and were so aroused by the sight that they said they got wet, or couldn't stop thinking about what they had seen, and whenever they thought about it, they would masturbate to that thought. And a few admitted they started having sexual thoughts about their brothers. So I think becoming sexually aroused by the sight of a nude member of the opposite sex can probably happen to girls and women as well as guys.

 

this makes me wish i had a brother hehe.

 

A number of the girls who posted about this experience actually took it a few steps further by giving their brothers handjobs and blowjobs. Usually it was because they had never done it before, so when they accidentally walked in on their brother wanking it, they stopped and asked if they could stay and watch, something to which most brothers agreed. That would lead to the girl asking her brother questions about handjobs and blowjobs, which in turn led to the girl jacking or sucking off their brother. Still other girls said they just went to their brother and asked him if he would teach them how to give a handjob or a blowjob, so that when they got a boyfriend, they'd know what to do. Once again, the brother was usually more than happy to accomodate his sister's request. Although I did read one post from a girl who said she had to beg her brother repeatedly to let her do that for him. All of the girls said they enjoyed the experience and didn't suffer any negative psychological or emotional effects from it.

 

i don't have a brother and only three girl cousins, and i'm on school holidays, my gf has an older brother, he's 21 but also has a gf. do you think i should ask him? do you think he would do it? if so, how would i ask him? i'd really like to see it.

 

I think you should be posting things like that in a different forum, like the Sex and Love one.

 

It just creeps me out and doesnt belong here

 

i know what i was talking about is not suited to this thread, but i joined this forum to talk about my love of nudity, how it makes me feel, and find out ways to deal with it.

being naked makes me feel horny, but if you go to any forum on here that discusses nudity, everyone pretends they're so cool about it, they they never feel sexy or anything. well i don't believe them, not all of them anyway. maybe when you get older you feel differently, but i don't.

how can i learn anything if nobody wants to talk about it with me?

if i go to the sex forums, people are talking about all sorts of things like how many times you've done it, where you've done it, how many partners, if you've done it on drugs and the like well i'm 16 and never done it so i can't join in. if i ask a question, it's just ignored.

i can't talk about this with my parents because they are just too strict, and i have no brothers or sisters to talk to, and my friends are on holidays, all i have is this computer.

i wasn't talking about incest, all i was saying was i would like to see a boy's penis and maybe i'd like to see him masturbate. i'm sorry that i've offended people and i guess i'll need to keep searching for a forum where i can talk to people about my problems.

sorry for getting upset.

bye

 

Aren't there boys at school that flirt with you or ask you out? That's usually how boys and girls have sexual experiences. Since you're only 16, I have to think that you've caught at least one boy's eye.

 

Shygirl16, you might want to sign up at the Live Wire Teen Forum at www.golivewire.com. It's a site specifically for both teenagers and college-age people, where they can talk about sex, relationships, and all sorts of other things. On the Teen section, there are lots of teen boys and girls there who ask questions, give advice, etc., on all sorts of topics. The Teen Sexuality section is where people usually talk about and ask and answer questions about sex, including oral, anal, masturbation, threesomes, etc. I think you would find lots of people there willing to answer your questions. Although you have to sign up for a profile there, you can also make posts anonymously. There's also a Private Message function like there is here on Hip Forums where you can communicate with specific members.

If you want, send me a Private Message and I'll tell you how to get to the Live Wire site.

 

Hi shygirl,

maybe i can write a few lines about nudism attitudes and ‚philosophy‘ to help you finding your own position. Of course, this is only based on my own experiences and impressions, so others might think different about.

I think there are three ‘main groups’ of nudist people:

1. People who declare nudism as a kind of dogma, a living philosophy with the claim to be ‘pure’ and basically non-sexual. These people often are organized in local nudist associations with their own enclosed club site, often connected with nude sporting activities.

2. People who live nudity as a part of their daily life for reasons of comfort, feeling free, living simple, connecting with nature, fun, practicality, being down to earth etc., there are so many motivations. These people are non-dogmatic with an open minded ‘live and let live’ attitude (I guess most writers here belong to this category). Erotic / sexual things are not banned from their nude life, but are not the focus.

3. People whose primary motivation for going nude is a certain erotic / sexual thrill they get from. This varies from discreet savor up to obvious and uninhibited living out of arousal (in the right settings for, of course).

As you may already imagine, I count myself to the second group. For me, connecting nudity with erotic or sexual feelings is not a must, but an option. For example, nude vacuum cleaning my flat is pretty free of any erotic impulse, but walking along the sea shore naked with my friend arm in arm, feeling not only his body by my side, but also sun and breeze on my whole skin can be pretty sexy (I guess it would be something wrong if not).

I know people of all three categories, the most from the second. Anyhow, the ones from the first group manage to get children though somehow, and the ones from the last group can behave adequate to the conventions of the setting they stay in. So if you like, you may forget my nudist classification again at once and let you guide by your own horse-sense.

Going naked basically is a pretty sensual and sensuous thing. You are more open for all kinds of stimuli and perceptions, all your senses are turned up. And sometimes it’s also a thrill, for example if you don’t know how other people will react. I do understand your statement, that you feel horny every time you go naked, connected to this. As you are not so used to go nude, your feelings might run wild from the sensuous experiences you make. Nothing wrong with it I think, arousal is not an ‘evil thing’ and the ability to get in this state is a real proof of health ;-) I guess it's important that you don't get the impression that you have (or should feel like having) a 'problem' if you react on nudity with such powerful feelings.

In another post you wrote you would be nosy to watch a boy masturbate. Though this is off topic in this forum section, just two words: Why not? I think all of us did go through such phases of research and knowledge enhancement, some in earlier years, some later. Probably you should look out for someone in your age to show you, as you are still minor and any full aged guy might get some legal trouble fulfilling your demand.

Take care!

 

where are you located?

no not on the forums, I can see that's europe.

I'll tell you if you tell me, in a PM of course.

I liked your follow-up post about #2 being the reason.

The reality for me is sometimes nudity is sexy, but the 'sexiness' depends on the intent going in. My intent at the nude section of the lake (mainland europe) during the summer, is to get a good tan. Yes, there are naked people there, but it's not really about *looking* at other people. If anything, seeing other people naked brings a sense of calm over me. Like looking at plants instead of some mess on the counter in the apartment (which is why I am organizing the apartment better and getting rid of a lot of my ex-partners crap).

I guess a way to tell directly what it is like for me is to compare it to how my ex-partner deals with it: always non-sensual: however, my ex-partner is also not intimate, really at all, physically or otherwise, and physical intimacy is at best only a small percentage of intimacy, with actual sex being 1% of the whole range of intimacy in my conciousness. (sex is 'sexual intercourse', i use the term literally). So if the other 99% is being intimate in a non-sexual intention, there is a vast cosmos of intimacy 'out there' (or within us and all around), and this is prompted by increasing the heat in the apartment during the winter, and dropping clothes.

However, actually I feel a colder apartment (17 grad) delivers a better balance between what I am wearing and the temp outside. That is I WANT to feel cold in the winter, and if I am working physically, quickly, or doing exercises, I want to temporarily reduce the amount of clothing on the body to allow for cooling, then add clothing as I do more sedentary tasks. A warm apartment (~23 or 24 grad) would not provide for the possibility, naked and not moving too much, ok, as soon as I feel dynamically compelled to move, then I would be too warm and sweaty.

If you want to normally dress next-to-nothing, you must stay around the tropics.
That is a good first step.

 

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That's just the way it is. No explanation, really.

What you do not realize is if anyone DOES talk with you about this, via the internet, they really do stand a good chance of getting a few years in prison. You are a kid. Under 18. And here in the US talking about sex with you CAN get people arrested. It is illegal. If you realy are in Australia,that makes it worse as it crosses international borbers. And there are "busts" where "kids" your age, which are really undercover agents, ask same or similar questions JUST to bust someone. Dateline had something similar called "To Catch A Predator". Good show, really. And then there are those few that will say this kind of stuff, seeking "help", and they will try to set people up to get busted, for pay. The scenarios for that are ridiculously vast.

Some of us have to ask outright, what is more important? Helping a 16 year old kid in another country, that may not really be a kid or in another country, with a problem that is something only a counselor or parent can help with OR staying out of prison and not spending the rest of their life on a sex offender database.

You might be telling the truth. Maybe you are 16. Maybe you are wanting help, legitimately. But..... does anyone really know what the truth is?

Call it what you want, for that is MY reason for ignoring your pleas for help.

 

"Hi guys, I'm not a girl and I'm not sixteen. I get off to posting things that OTHER molesters can masturbate to, in my spare non-molesting time."

 

i hve only started going nude since me and the wife move to cyprus though she doesnt mind me being nude but she does go nude i could not go nude in front of my family

 

I'm 20 years old, and growing up I liked the male and female body and loved being naked. my family is very conservative so we never saw each other naked. I find myself a lot now, wanting to be able to be nude in front of others, especially families. I want to meet and become close to a young family that would show me how great the nude lifestyle is and how its such a great way to bond with your family. reading all these posts make me jealous HaHaHa

 

I am definately comfortable walking around nude when I am home alone, or at my boyfriends house. But I don't think I could do so with my other familly members..

 

Good posts everyone. Nudity was not a big issue with my family, as it was just me and my mom. She is from Spain and they have a more relaxed view to nudity. It didn't feel wierd if she came out naked from the shower and we didn't bother with locking and closing our doors if we were changing. She sunbathes topless and always had a good looking tan, which made me jealous and when I was 13, I started tanning in the backyard. We had nigh walls and I don't think it was possible for people to spy on us As I got more comfortable with it, I started doing it in the nude. My mom eventually noticed my overall tan and although she had no probllem, always made sure I was safe from "perverts". She would be ok if I was nude in my room but not in the living room or anywhere else. She admired me being comfortable with it and I would have liked my mom to join me, but she had her feelings about it and she didn't like the idea of doing it around other people who would get "ideas". My cousins had a pool and we would sunbath topless until we noticed a boy was spying on us. My mom put an end to it after that and in addition, started having a boyfriend come around the house. School and work started getting heavy and I no longer had time to go tanning as much. Shame because I had a nice tan. I still slept in the nude though would sometimes do my hw in the nude. It wasn't until college when I found others who enjoyed it as much as I do. Telling my mom I was a nudist, I found her very accepting, but she still warns me to watch out for "perverts".

 

I once saw my dad nude,it didn't bother him but i turned red.

 

I am nude all the time in my house, as well as around some of my friends when they come over. When I go visit my mom, if I'm the only one home I'll be nude at her house as well. I go over my one friend's house, and it's funny, because they have counted the seconds from the time I walk in the door to when I get naked. I think it was around 10 seconds! lol