Nudism and dating sites

Hi all,
New to the forum. Am an AANR member and love going to Shangri La Ranch in New River, Az as often as I can. Many years ago I used to go to Stony Acres in Freetown, Ma, but nobody remembers the place.

I am single, widowed, and have been for some time. Thinking it was time to try and find someone I joined both POF and MATCH. Never said anywhere in my Profiles that I was a Nudist, but did say I was a member of AANR. Most correspondence ended abruptly when I brought up the AANR member ship and asked if they knew what it was. The others might go nude in their house but never out where others will see them. So I canceled both. I may try Nudistfriends, but I am not sure. Don't want to waste money on another useless site.

Anyone have experience with Nudistfriends or have any suggestions for other dating sites?

Thank
AzBare

 

Most online nudist dating or chat sites aren't worth spending your money on. In my experience, they tend to be mostly sex and masturbation sites for lonely old men and horny bi/gay men. Your best bet for meeting and making nudist friends of either sex is through visiting nudist resorts, beaches, and other legal nudist venues.

 

Thanks NudistTed.
Not what I wanted to hear, but what I expected. Oh well.

 

You're stuck with the fact that when it's about nudism, there are far more men interested than women, but the men really want to meet women who'd join them! So it creates an opportunity for fake dating sites, where men pay cash in hopes of meeting women. The sites run a few fake profiles of women to keep up the guys' interest, but the real women are never going to be there. Like this board at Hipforums, where we entertain each other with some fake female identities, but at least it's free.

I'd say keep working at finding a woman you're compatible with (that's important too, right?) and who's at least willing to meet you knowing that you're interested in nudity. If you get a relationship that works, then maybe you can show her how much fun it is being nude. But ultimately you might have to choose between being in a relationship with someone who wants to be clothed all the time, and not being in a relationship at all.

 

so in other words, nude dating is exactly like clothed dating.

 

Sorry, I don't understand that.

 

I think you got that wrong. Women tend to be way more cautious about where and with who they go nude with. They don't like being gawked at, verbally or physically harassed/assaulted. In my experience, women enjoy nudism as much as anyone else as long as they feel they are SAFE.

 

I don't need to disagree with you, Ted. The reason can be anything, but whatever women are doing, they aren't on nudist dating sites.

 

me neither. i would think both genders would be interested in dating, but for some reason it's only men. which leads to fake dating sites, just like you mentioned with the nudists.

 

I met a girl at a naturist resort once and we went on a date in the evening. It was a very interesting meeting naked and ending the date clothed. The opposite of usual!

 

OK I'minmyunderwear, now I get it. But you're just plain totally wrong--about the same as saying the earth is flat. Millions of people are using dating sites, both men and women! Maybe they don't all have happy experiences, but there's no question about what they're doing. I have a relative who met his wife on OKCupid, for instance, and they seem to be getting along. You probably know people in the same situation.

Nudist dating sites are different. There the men are eager to sign up, but the women stay away.

 

Tried my hand at nude dating site but you can tell its not a 100% true experience better to meet similar minded people in person at the clubs, resorts and holiday places that accept nudism

 

I've seen this topic come up a few times now and I just want to say for the record that I did my best to be proactive on dating sites a few years back, I sent opening messages and stuff, and the whole thing was useless for me as a woman, too.

 

somehow, that actually makes me feel slightly better about it.

out of curiosity, are there a bunch of obviously fake male profiles too? like i see women who have obvious stolen-from-the-internet model photos, and their "about me" sections are either flat out gibberish or direct links to their porn sites.

 

No that's not something I noticed, besides the fact that the only 99% match I had on okc was significantly better looking than most profiles and some other stuff, I don't quite remember, but I remember wondering if it wasn't real. It didn't respond to my message anyway.

 

I used Match,com, I laid it on the line, put it all out front. That culls out most of the questions. I met one lady that had been a nudist and and one that became a nudist I married her, There is also a nudist dating site. good luck.

 

Obviously there are successes in online dating sites but I would guess it doesn't really increase your chances anymore than going out into the world and taking up group hobbies and classes etc.

 

Fully agree. It's embarrassing how much time we wasted attempting to meet online authentic people interested in nude activities. This site will be my last attempt, and already it's not looking good. Quora had possibilities, but no longer. Get yourself to a good nudist campground and maybe meet a good match (at least you'll have a pleasant time looking).

 

damn, i never hit 99%. back in the old days, i think maybe 92% was my record.

i tried again more recently for a little while (the site has really gone downhill) and i'm pretty sure they changed their match formula. i'm around 95% with about half of the "people" on there now. still no 99s though.

 

That is so true. We are members of a clothing optional LS campground/resort. Best thing we ever did to enhance our social time with like minded couples. It’s more genuine than any hook up sites.
The online sites are filled with “want-a-be’s”. And then they ghost you.

 

Check with Panama Jack privately for specifics.

 

Hope you don't mind that I just volunteered you to wifekaty for info. I'm assuming you meant the same info you've told me about.