Not gay, but think about Sucking?

I am still confused about my sexuality. I have this problem as well, i love penis alot. i have only sucked twice, with the same guy. and i enjoyed it. I still think about doing it, but am not very interested in anal, i have experimented in the shower with myself...but i don't really anymore. I call myself bi but am still in the closet, and still have no idea if I'm straight or gay. i love the thought of a mans cock being in my mouth, but the thought of vagina is kinda..wierd to me. i do like boobs though...i think, I'm really not sure what i like. I think the fact that i don't want to be gay and don't want people to know im gay if i was gay conflicts with my thoughts. It has been quite sometime since ive done anything sexual with anyone. I am going to decide after i lose my virginity i think...or whichever one i get first, a dick or a vagina. Ill probably always be bi though, its a decision of bi or gay. if you have any advice please reply.

 

Honestly I don't think you have to worry much about whether you're gay or bi. This is only based on my experience I don't really know much about queer theory but I'm pretty sure people are capable of all sorts of different attractions in their lives. I'm definitely bi... but thats because sometimes I'm really attracted to women and want to have a relationship with one and other times I'm really attracted to men and want to have a relationship with one. In these instances sometimes I'm straight, sometimes I'm gay. If I'm single and just trying to have a sexual relationship (a hook up) its going to depend on the situation and who I'm attracted to. But its really flexible. I don't really think its healthy to have such a binary view of sexuality and to compartmentalize the way you feel in different situations. With that said I'm speaking moreso to how I percieve myself and not how society perceives people. I can't really speak to that. But my main point.... you don't really need to decide. If you like sucking guys and kissing and stuff and not having anal then thats what you like... if you like having sex with girls or both girls and guys then thats what you like. You just gotta do what youre most comfortable with.

 

Hi all,
New here but just wanted to add my experiences. I am 49 and married for twenty plus years to a woman I love and adore. We have a great life with almost everything materially that we want.
For the last nine or ten years I have met up with a "mate" probably on average every 6 to 8 weeks for mutual masturbation and sucking. It is a personal time, my wife does not have any idea.
I still look at women and think how "nice that would be"!! I very rarely look at other guys.
Am I gay - I don't think so. Am I Bi - maybe. Do I enjoy my times with my wife - you bet I do. Do I enjoy getting naked and masturbating another cock and sucking - Yes, its unreal.
Its so hard to categorise!!!

 

This link might be useful to some. It's some research I conducted a while ago that explores what the majority of self-identified straight men really think about same-sex activity.

There are plenty of fetishes straight men have when it comes to other guys. The evidence is out there, it's just rarely talked about.

Seven Pints - Self-Identified Heterosexual Men and the Male/Male Mutual Masturbation Fetish.

 

The question I would ask is this,
If you had choose between a gorgeous girl or your dream guy both naked in front of you which one would you pick to have sex with if you could only pick one?

If you pick the guy cause you are crazy about sucking his cock, then you are at the least bisexual and probably gay.

 

When I was in High School, my best friend and I were hanging out, and he asked if I'd like to give gay sex a try. Being very curious, I was up for it. Didn't like the kissing, loved getting my dick sucked, loved sucking my friend's dick. He ended up going 100% gay, I am happily married, but I would love the chance to suck a dick again. My wife knows my history, but she's too uptight to have a 3-some, so unfortunately that is out. Would love to have a WWM and WMM experience with my wife....oh well...

 

I am myself quite confused. I cannot imagine a romantic relationship with a guy. The thought of kissing a guy makes me nauseous, but I have sucked dick before...

 

I have a similiar feeling, but I rather have my cock sucked than sucking on someones cock

 

I like the idea of a 69 with a guy while a woman watches and masturbates

 

I love licking pussy, but I want to suck a throbbing cock too. I don't want to have a relationship with a man, but I want to be ravaged by one. Then go home and ravage my girlfriend.

I think there is a beauty in all of humanity, in women, and in men. To be aware, and to be courageous enough to dare to explore....I want to be there one day.

 

well i am not gay but have sucked cock and loved it would love to do it again too

 

Basically; I have two questions:

1) Did the cock you sucked cum in your mouth?

If yes; did it taste as good as yours (given the same consistency and viscosity)?

2) Were you masturbating or being sexually stimulated while you were sucking?

If yes; did you cum as the cock was cuming in your mouth?

If yes; did you eat &/or mix your cum with the cum from the other cock?

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I feel the same. I love watching porn where girls are sucking dick, and I like tranny porn. But there are only a few guys that I like watching. The others just don't do it... So I tink sometimes about what it would be like to get with a tranny... Everything is female in form and body, face and breasts... etc, but they will have a nice cock for me to suck..

 

i'm the same, i love women and at the same time love sucking dick and done it a few times and ate their cum. I also have fucked and got fucked with men and can't seem to get enough, but at the same time i find women a lot more attractive than men.

 

i'm the same, but i like to go one step more by taking a guy's dick in my ass and shove it in my mouth!

 

i'm the same, but i like to go one step more by taking a guy's dick in my ass and shove it in my mouth!

 

You are definitely not alone. I have thought about this off and on for years. There is just something about it that is arousing. You can't help what turns you on.

 

I'm the same. Not attracted to guys at all but have sucked cocks, fucked, being fucked and swallowed and love it. But at the same time i don't even look at guys in the street!!

 

well i never liked guys but have fantsized about sucking a cock ,,, about a year ago things happened and i was able to finally get one in my mouth it really is a pleasure to give head and have a man cum in your mouth i enjoyed it so much that i went even further and let him do me anal omg that was great :sunny: it did take a couple days to recover .....am i bi? gay? nah I like girls but enjoy sex :love:

 

Yeah...I'm kinda in a similar situation. I'm definitely into women, but when I was really curious, before I'd done anything I feel like I was looking all over, seeing handsome dudes left and right and being like yeah, him. But now after having a few experiences I realize that I really don't care that much about dudes, and have no romantic interest in them. I see handsome dudes all the time, but it's not often I'll give them a second look. I feel like I looked at them (or maybe wanted too?) a lot more before I'd actually had my first encounter. More than anything though, I just think about sucking them off.