So I'm a bisexual girl and obviously straight people don't really understand it, but I find myself increasingly scared to come out as bisexual in the LGB+ community. I've had so many lesbians saying they'd never date a bi girl in case she went out with a guy after them, and they just don't seem to think we're as valid in the community because we like guys as well? I have a preference for girls and I sometimes feel like it would be easier to just come out as a lesbian so I could actually be accepted within the community that's supposed to be for us... but then if I ended up falling for a guy it would just makes things even worse. I just get so frustrated because you can't control who you fall for - and I would have thought the LGB+ would get that more than anyone! Does anyone else feel the same way or is this just me being weird?
who gives a flying fuck if a community you don't want to belong to puts you down stop giving a shit about what the full blown hardcore dykes think...... until you stop concerning yourself with the opinions of others you will never truly be ''out'' of anything or anywhere besides....militant lesbos are not like your everyday lesbian....everyday lesbians accept bi's and more importantly they don't care what gender you fuck
i'm bumping this thread to get some feedback for our young bisexual poster.....come on you guys. while my answer is correct and accurate and Si69 seems to agree I feel there are more answers to this query
My best friend is a bi girl in a now 3 year lesbian relationship, I know the desire to belong exists in all of us (heck, I belong with Bears) but you need to stay true to your path and who you are and eventually you will carve your own niche to belong in. Take this opportunity to be empowering. Peace and blessings and good luck!
