Not attracted to me but love cocks and cum.

How many others don't find men attractive but love to suck cock?

 

Me.

 

Being bisexual taught me a lot about attraction and beginning with me understanding that I wasn't attracted to guys like I was to girls and understanding that when guys talk about being attracted to guys. - or not being attracted to them - it's about being attracted to men like gay men are attracted to men which is fine... but I'm not gay. I do not and have not looked at a guy and gone all weak in the knees just because he's hot looking and that's because it really comes done to who a guy is that's under the veneer of his looks or, yeah, just because it looks good doesn't mean that it is good.

I am and have not ever been attracted to men like I am women; I don't like guys like that but I do like their dicks, and I learned that I do not have to like a man like a gay man would - I just have to like him enough to want to have sex with him. I don't have to be "romantically inclined" to want to get into a guy's pants - I just have to want to get my hands and mouth on his dick and with a guy who isn't going to mind if I do get into his pants - and he wants to get into mine. Do I find guys to be from butt-ass ugly to amazingly gorgeous? Yeah, sure... not that it means anything because beauty is only skin deep - and a hard and painful lesson learned by dealing with girls/women.

I am attracted to the sex and I had a hard time accepting this fact of the matter because I was taught to not be all that attracted to sex - and, again, dealing with girls/women who ask, "Is that all you ever think about?" and I have never, ever, had a guy ask me that. The question I like to ask guys who state that they're not attracted to men but they like the dick is... who says you have to be attracted to them? I fuck with my protege who, like a lot of guys seem to be, is all about being attracted and I ask him, "You plan on having his babies or you're gonna knock him up? Y'all getting married tomorrow?" He is very slowly learning that attraction isn't about what you see and I like to remind him that we are bisexual men... not gay men and we don't have to play by their rules - but I would supposed that we're supposed to, huh, which means being attracted to men... and like a gay man would be.

If I'm not gay, how does that make any sense? Some of the best sex I've had with men has been with guys who weren't all that good-looking and/or not in the best shape and my being able to bask in the headiness of getting ready to have sex with him... because the sex is very damned attractive but our society teaches us to not be attracted to just the sex when, in fact, it is well within our nature to be.

I don't like men like that even though I was in love with a gay man because he was beautiful on the inside, and experience has taught me that I don't have to like men or be "attracted" to them - I just have to find something I like about them that will lead to us having sex; otherwise, I see dudes every cotton-picking day and none of which makes me all weak in the knees or whatever reaction is supposed to happen in order to be attracted to a man and his looks, the size of his cock, or any other superficial crap we're supposed to pay attention to because of society's definitions of what being attracted to someone is supposed to mean before you can have sex with them and remembering what my parents told me about having sex: Never have sex with someone you don't care about or are in love with and, oh, yeah, a woman who isn't attractive and this is what "attractive" should mean to me...

And me finding out the hard way that everyone who told me what being attracted is supposed to me... was wrong. I'm attracted to sex with men even if I don't find the guy physically pleasing, which I usually don't... but he has a dick and he's willing to let me play with it and he's willing to play with mine so... what exactly is there to be attracted to? And why?

Just my $0.47 worth. A lot of guys think that you have to be attracted to a man in order to have sex with him and... you don't. Who says you have to? It really is okay to be attracted to cock... and if the guy it's attached to is okay, so much the better.

 

I am not attracted to mwn in the sense that I don’t see a guy in the street and think: wow this is a guy I wish was in bed with me right now. This is something which crosses my mind when ai see a very attractive womwn, usually with large breasts.
All this being said, if a man offered to suck my cock right now, I would say yes without hesitation. Go figure.

 

Not that hard to figure out, is it? You don't have to be attracted to a guy if you want him to suck your dick because the only thing that matters is... that he sucks your dick, gets you off and, for bonus points, swallows your cum without complaint. You just gotta like him enough to let him suck you off and that's not all that hard to do. If I find myself talking to a guy, I know within the first five minutes or so if I'm going to have sex with him... and if he happens to ask. Maybe I might try to put the idea in his head - and especially if we're drinking (heh, heh) and the reason isn't that I'm attracted to him - but I do tend to like guys who like to suck dick or they're not weird about getting sucked off.

 

I don't find men attractive but I sure love the sex.

 

So after my second divorce I decided to open the field. Played with both chicks and guys. One guy seemed to keep cropping up. We got along well, I liked bottom and he was ok with top. Smaller dick, which suited me fine.

After a few meetings I asked him on a daytime date. I wanted to see how 'compatible' we might be longterm. Was I really gay? Him?

There was just no 'there' there. I was somewhat disappointed.

 

Probably 95% of us on this forum.

 

Hi, I'm 48 married guy. I've no experiances with guys whatsoever but I crave sucking cock. Ixm not attracted to men but jerk off to cocks daily.

 

Have jerked off to men exclusively for the last 15 years but have not had the chance to suck a man off, let alone swallow his load. Firmly on my bucket list.

 

Def on my bucket list, i can't imagine waiting 15years though. Im too impatient.

 

This is interesting!
I have had a long time FWB for 20+ years and really don't find him attractive in the same way as I find, say, a very sexy woman but there is definitely "something" there. I had never really thought about it before although we have slept naked together, kissed and cuddled so many times.
Maybe it is all about sucking cock and spending time together naked and the lack of inhibitions that that brings for two guys just sharing their horniness together.

 

Interesting post - I am the same not attracted to guys like I am to women- just the sex makes it so horny-I have never tried but its on my list for sure- lots of like minded on here-

 

I experienced the same as many on here. Once I took that first step and actually took a dick into my mouth, I knew it was going to happen again. There was just something about it that felt right....truly enjoying how hard it became and knowing I would soon taste all of the cum it would release. I can honestly say I did not have any desire for an emotional attachment with him or any other man, but most certainly craved an intimate period of time with their dicks. While the man I am sucking may view this purely as a physical act, I do have to admit for me there is an emotional component when his dick goes into my mouth. He has entered my body sexually and I need to bring him to a pleasing finish.

 

Weird, right? My wife always catches me taking a double take at other women but you won't find me looking at other guys with that lust. I see a hot babe fully dressed and I get that cock twitch starting up as I imagine what she looks like under her panties. I look at her lips and try to visualize how much her pussy might look like her mouth. I look at her ass and wonder how it would be to have her bent over a couch with my thumb in her ass. I look at her feet and wonder how they'd feel on my cheeks while her legs are up and over my shoulders so I can push all the way in her.
Then I see guys and whatever.
Sometimes at the health club I see guys who intentionally don't wrap in a towel and I look at their dicks but don't take in their bodies. It's a laser focus on cock and balls.
When I'm hooking up with a guy I don't get excited until we're really alone and approaching each other. The first kiss or when I'm unbuttoning his pants, my dick rages pointing to the ceiling. Before that, nothing. I don't think of guys as sexy but I think sex with guys is sexy. I think it's the freedom I feel when I'm with a guy who clearly knows at that point that I'm going to do some gay stuff with him and he's going to do whatever he wants with me. It's raw and simple. No worries about what he thinks of me or what will happen next. Just 'get your cock out and let's get to it'.
Another way to look at it is how my relationships differ with men and women. I always feel bummed after a breakup with a girlfriend (before getting married). After even just a couple months I was attached to each of them and never casually walked away, no matter how good the reason for the breakup. With men, not at all the same. When a suck buddy moves away or stops meeting up for any reason it's like 'I wonder if I can find another guy today?'.
Sex with men is great but I know I'll never have that emotional attachment to a man, just a desire for cocks, balls, and their cum.

 

If you can make that emotional connection with a guy, it can be quite wonderful but outside of gay guys I know, all of the bi guys I personally know will tell you that they're not attracted to men, but they like the sex men can have. Well, except my protege - he still believes that he has to be attracted to a guy in order to have sex with him and he's been slowly learning that while that's nice, it's not necessary nor is it a requirement - but so many believe that it is.

 

For the most part, I'm with ya. Its the dick that I want. But one time, thanks to CL, I hooked up with a short Asian guy who turned me on not only sexually but also romantically. That is, I was attracted to HIM, not just his dick. It was special, but I was on travel and we could never hook up again.

 

Yeah, it figures that you run into a guy you connect with romantically and... the chances of you seeing him again are slim and none. I always found it a pain to really connect with a guy and there's so much distance between us... but that's fine; if it happens, it happens but it has nothing to do with my great desire to suck cock...

 

I don't find men attractive, but I would love to suck cock.

 

BINGO! I told my wife once that if she had a cock, I would suck it. It would probably be Fun. I have sucked cock in the past but don't find men attractive or desireable at all. It was all about the need and sexual lust of the situations .