not at the same level

I understand and appreciate Eternal Soul's posts, too, but also think it is great that morgasm has a place to go to ask such questions. I remember being that age and not having anyone other than my friends to ask. If she chooses to be sexually active, at least she isn't doing it blindly.

I think our buttons can move around and get harder to push; and, they move and change at different rates. You also need to think about his sexual past... I can imagine that it wouldn't take much in the beginning because of the newness, but if he has gone further with other girls in the past, gettin' chubby may take more. Don't take it personally. The time will come when you don't get the butterflies as quickly and easily.

As long as he is enjoying it and isn't pushing to go further, does it really matter? I had a boyfriend in high school who told me after a few dates that he didn't play "huggy-kissy-high-school games". Idiot me slept with him and then he dumped me. Ok, ok, I'm still a litter bitter after 17 years, with myself because I was so stupid! :dupe:

I've been with the same man 15 years and he claims to be really turned on sometimes and doesn't understand why he isn't pitching a tent.