My wife doesn't swallow, bummer for me. It's kind if buzz kill because she loves giving me oral. But when it is time to finish it's just STOP. No more stroking or mouth action. And I cum with her making a weird face.. Any suggestions on getting her to finish with her mouth? Or how to make the pay off a little more pleasurable for me without making her do anything she doesn't want to do? Single thumbed using Tapatalk
It's a great thought, unfortunately I'm not sure I could actually introduce the subject to her like that. "Hey, want to learn how to swallow? Let's get another gal to show you...." She just doesn't like the act. She's pretty open to everything else anal, rimming, toys etc.....
My wife is the same way. She loves giving me a BJ, and sometimes prefers to do it instead of sex, but she will not let me cum in her mouth. It really sucks when I'm really getting into it and she stops the BJ and starts giving me a hand job.
So you could hold her head down or pull a "whoops" maneuver, get her with one good shot in the mouth before she pulls up & gags, but then you probably won't be getting any more BJ's in the near future, so probably a bad move. You could have her mount you so you cum inside her. Maybe she'll take it on her boobs or possibly in the face, but if she's not willing to take it in the mouth then chances of that are pretty slim. So my wife doesn't like to take the whole load in the mouth as it makes her gag, however I've expressed to her that I love it if after I'm done cumming or near the tail end if she'll go down on me some more, which you see a lot in pornos. And she's willing to do this and a few times has made me cum a couple consequtive times from it
Some girls just don't want your baby batter in their mouth! Don't think there is much you can do about it. You could always slap a condom on when you feel yourself getting near and cum with that on in her mouth. No it is not the same, but it isnt so bad either.
sc17, my first comment was just a joke and not to be taken serious as enhancer mentions, some girls just don't dig it, and I can't blame them honestly. It's not like we're shooting out ice cream sundays with chocolate sprinkles. Yeah the last option I like honestly as it's a mind scramble once I'm about done shooting my load for her to go back down on me. It's actually almost overwhelming as the head of my jimmy john gets real sensitive after cumming, so when she goes back down on me it makes me want to scream out
HAHA! I didn't know where the sarcasm ended or began...I've been trolling around here and I'm still learning the difference. unlike most men, I DO shoot ice cream sundays. :2thumbsup:
Observation: So after pondering this more, I realized she loves to give me head. And while she is working it, I'll squeeze out some of my precum in her mouth while she is in the middle of performing. She LOVES this, I can tell when she tastes it because she gets even more into it. Maybe it's a texture thing? Any Doctors out there have any suggestions on thinning out m'juice?
So that's interesting. My pre-cum my wife doesn't like much and she usually ends up wiping it on a shirt or something. So the fact that she likes your pre-cum is actually a real good thing. There's nothing out there I can think of to make you cum less so you don't gag her, but that said there are different cum textures. For example if one cums in the morning with hardly any foreplay or warm up, then it's typically really thick and not as plentiful. However if there's a lot of foreplay or something to get your juices flowing then it typically thins out, but has a larger volume. The fact that she likes blowing you in the first place is a good thing and maybe it's best to not rock the boat
There's a major difference between the taste of precum & semen. The first time I was with a guy who produced precum (which I, personally, don't) I was dubious about having it in my mouth, but as we were already 6-9ing, I went ahead, even though I was expecting it to be just the same as semen - slimy & disgusting. But when I tasted it, I was amazed that it was nothing like what I expected & was surprisingly pleasant. When he finally ejaculated, I decided to taste some of his semen, to see if this guy tasted different to others I had been with, but no. It tasted just the same as I had expected. Ever since then I've relished the taste of precum, but avoided, at all costs, taking their semen into my mouth.
Yeah, sometimes there's just no logic in what a woman will or will not do. My wife is the same way. She would happily do anal, rimming, deepthroat, ATM, etc., but absolutely refuses to swallow. I'm luckier in that she always finishes me off in her mouth by providing plenty of tongue actions while I cum. But, she'll go straight to the bathroom to spit it out and to brush her teeth. It's kind of a mood killer, but it's much better than not getting it or pulling me out of her mounth when I cum. I can't figure out why she refuses to swallow. I mean, I usually cum inside her mouth, so it's not like the taste or texture that's bothering her. She's even fine with sucking me right after I fucked her ass. I have asked her many times before, but she's never given a reason, just said she didn't want to. No logic, but I'm fine with it.
My wife was the same way. Our solution, rather than a face that says "ick, please don't get any in my eyes", she keeps stroking while eagerly saying "cum on my tits" or face. It keeps the nasty taste out of her mouth, but shows her enjoying that I orgasmed.
It's the taste she doe not like. It's almost metallic. Drink lots of coke the night before and you cum will taste sweeter. My wife told me that.
tell her that it is ok NOT to swallow. she does not need to feel pressured. ask her of she could just keep sucking until you are done, but let it run out of her mouth back onto your cock..... keep a cloth handy for cleanup.....
