Hey guys been married for about 3 years and and I love my wife but one thing sucks is that we have certain days we have sex because she doesn’t desire it or have any sex drive we had sex about 3 times a week but it’s getting old because she only does it to please me I’m not Getting the reaction I want and my penis is small any way 4.4” and I kinda want that reaction from her
Viper, you're going to have to look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself are you still the one she is attracted to? Not just physically, but also professionally. I've been married for 18 years now. I learned that a married couple's sex life has to evolve and change. Otherwise, it becomes stagnant, predictable, boring and eventually stops. Don't expect your woman to do this. Women in general are used to being pursued, not the pursuers. Be a man, take the lead.
Three times a week and you’re complaining? That is way more than average. I’ve been married 32 years. My wife and I have (EXTREMELY GOOD) sex once a week. Once in a while we’ll go twice in a week. I am not complaining at all. The weekly one is scheduled (for no interruptions) and we always spend a good 90 minutes to 2 hours before we’re done (we both love forepaly and cuddling afterwards). as far as your penis size is concerned, it’s not the car that wins races, it’s the driver.
I'm lucky if I have sex at least once a week. So I resort to other things to get relief. Consider yourself lucky.
yea the thing is with my wife she doesnt like any foreplay or anything shes more of a hit and quit type so sex last maybe 5-10 min and she doesn't get turned on or at all so its not really enjoyable for her
Sounds like sympathy sex. That’s something you both need to resolve. That’s my 2¢ psychology opinion.
Regarding romance, you've gotten some good input already. You have to take responsibility for creating the best and most likely conditions for her enjoyment. If you continue on this path, her not enjoying the experience, and you lamenting her lack of enjoyment, you will find yourself one of the estimated 20 percent of couples who have sexless marriages. When she said "to have and to hold" in her vows, she didn't say she would crave sex with you or that she worshipped your cock. So far, she's keeping up her end of the bargain, but likely neither of you will want to keep having this kind of sex indefinitely. There are a number of websites that are designed for couples to identify what sexual activities they most enjoy, what they are curious to try, and what they would never want to do. You do this independently, and then the program harmonizes your results and tells you what you both are into that you're not already doing. It also tells you what to steer clear of. If one of you is repulsed by the idea of a particular activity, it's good to know that also. That's just one idea. You could buy a book that's a compilation of women's sexual fantasies, and take turns reading them aloud to each other. Sooner or later, you're going to find one that arouses her. Many couples watch porn together to explore what arousals they have in common and as part of foreplay. There's tons of free porn videos online. Sooner or later, you'll find something she likes, that excites her. The key is to get it ready, but for her to make the selections. If you make her watch things that you like and that disgust her, you'll be making the situation worse. You can make suggestions regarding genre, but you have to let her select. Make up some games, but you take the initiative. Show up for bed wearing the costume of her favorite superhero. Play her favorite music. Wear a penis extender sleeve. When you offer her a better sexual experience, she'll want to do it for more than 10 minutes at a time. If all else fails, find a relationship counselor who specializes in the sexual side or relationships. Do it before you become a sexless couple. What you perceive to be a problem with the duration and variation of your sexual encounters (from your point of view) or lack of arousal and excitement (from your wife's point of view) is likely to have a communication problem as an underlying cause. In other words, your mutual lack of sexual satisfaction is likely to be a symptom of the real problem, a problem you have not yet acknowledged.
No. Pin her down, tell her you're going to use her girly parts for your pleasure tonight, tell her if she is a good girl she can have some pleasure too, rip her clothes off, lick her till she cums x 2, ***k her for the rest of the night, if she resists tie her down with her panties and bra, spank her or both. Be a man, just TAKE her. She'll thank you later. Didn't know my wife was into that stuff till I got carried away one night. If I asked, she would have said no.
I’ve been with a number of women that had never had an orgasm until I ate their pussy , before that they acted indifferent but once they had their first orgasm they were like a different woman horny and wanting to have sex often , if you can talk her into letting you eat her pussy suck on her pussy lips and if she becomes aroused suck on her clit at the last minute if she seems like she’s going to cum and sucking on her clit will bring her to an intense orgasm I’ve been with probably 200 women in my life and not a single one didn’t love having orgasms once they have it they seem addicted to having orgasms
One woman I was with was cold and indifferent and after I ate her pussy and gave her her first orgasm she told me she had to masturbate 5 or 6 times a day she was so horny
