I was married to a woman and didn't have sex for years. I have remarried, and have sex 2-3 times a week. Thank God. At first there is porn, that gets boring rather quickly so you start wandering into shemale etc. for something "different".. but then that eventually gets boring to. So I ended up in Cam sites. Not the corporate pay sites, but wondered from smaller non pay sites. Then I started masturbating camming myself. That was a thrill I had absolutely no idea I would ever do. I didn't care if it was 99.9% men watching...it was just a thrill to include other human beings.
This scenario happens a lot. There are many posts about this subject with a lot of information about satisfying the male sex drive when the spouse becomes celibate. Here are a few choices: Become celibate yourself. Resort to masturbation. Engage in sex outside of the marriage.
If she is refusing you, I don’t see how she could legitimately complain if you masturbated openly in bed beside her at night or if you took “extended” showers in the morning.
Well that’s a bit shit isn’t it. I’ve got the best of both worlds - an active sex life and frequent masturbation. Winner!
We still do it a few times a year but during the long spans in between...a lot of porn and jacking off. I'll likely end up cheating if opportunity comes along.
I know the feeling no sex with wife. The wife is not interested anymore. I use Skype and masturbate with some female friends who enjoy seeing me cum.