Sucks doesn't it. But now all you can do is look forward, if the past holds something you can't run away from, overcome it. You can. Just be.
I'm still lost in life... and I feel much better because of it. Its only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything.
True. But you can also renounce everything at once instead of losing them one at a time. But that nenunciation must be for a higher cause.
coldness is the only way to survive. people are lieing, scheming assholes, ive been let down enough to know that. i dont have any goals, im not an ambitious person. i dont want to live by societies plan. i am numb to most things i am only a projection of a person. this is why the fact that i can not cope with this shows to me how much i have been connected in this
Its the best book I've ever read. I don't read much, but why wouldn't I quote it... Its appropriate for every situation.
Coldness is an escape from survival, Maybe you don't need someone else right now, but you have to recognise your own feelings. Pain is an exquisite feeling... its the true face of growth.
Yes... that is why you must be driven to strive ahead of them. Being better than them (and feeling better than them) is the ultimate F-U you can give them. Coldness just creates a fortress, Alacrity wins the War. And Plus, excessive coldness is also a symptom of a dependent self-cosciousness. The only way you can have a truly independent self-consciousness is being indifferent and skeptical, toward most people, and convincing yourself that you can survive without them.
That is the first step toward un-fooling yourself Yep, but it can be overwhelming if have not assimilated it yet. Treating it rationally will help you assimilate pain by making it a part of your learning experience.
Well I have to be up in 5 hours I'm going to crash, Sotty, I'm sorry if nothing I'm saying is helping ease your pain. Words may be hollow, but... I think overcoming pain will make you a better person. Good luck.
Colzeno is the Jack Nicolson of the forums and you are all Chers, Michelle Pfeiffers, and Susan Sarandons..... if you have no clue what I am speaking of then rent The Witches of Eastwick.
Wow... So Sooty was fretting over Colenzo. He's hardly someone I would want to fret over... or anybody I meet online for, that matter. Yeah, he's a great guy, but well, he's only.... well, mortal.
I like when people leave negative reps on topics they know nothing of. It's highly amusing. If I did not know what I was speaking of, I would not have made the comment on the board. I could name the girls implied as witches from the movie, but, nah. I would rather not watch that drama unfold again.
I'm still having difficulties determining who is who/what is what round here. If you get bored, PM me the names as the drama must've been before my Time... Anonymous Negative Rep givers aka 'gutless wonders' elsewhere. Haven't seen it here, yet...