This morning my brother in law text me and told me that during sex with his wife last night she informed him that they would no longer be having any oral sex. Though I guess it has never been exactly a favorite thing of hers she wasn't ever totally opposed to it. When he asked why, she told him because people their age (60s) shouldn't be having oral sex anymore. Dumbfounded he asked me this morning if my wife, her sister, thought the same way. Even though my wife and I have little or no sex anymore on account of my wife's losing sexual interest she never blamed it on age and still enjoys giving me an occasional bj. And loves me to lick her. Just curious if others have experienced comments of such as she stated to him
My wife and gave each other oral in our 30's, 40's and early 50's. Since her menopause about age 56 (she is now almost 72), she hasn't been able to comfortably have vaginal sex and doesn't want to give or receive oral although she enjoys my masturbating her once a week.
My wife is 62 and still enjoys giving and receiving oral. I feel bad for a guy who's wife does this...C'mon, give yourself to him and at least suck a load out of his cock.
drock69: "If that’s her lame reason, it’s time for a side chick!" Or guy. Some men don't feel so bad about cheating on a sexless wife with another guy. And 60's isn't too old to enjoy a nice blowjob or learn the pleasure of giving one.
I never cheated on my ex wife of any girlfriend, but if a woman wants a sexless relationship, I guarantee you I’ll cheat!
Sounds like a great idea to me but I'm sure he would be repulsed by the thought. He's pretty straight laced about life and I'm sure sex
Being cut off from BJ's is like.....is like....cutting off oxygen...................ahhhhhhggggg!!!! Oh, boy is that going to turn into resentment fast.....wait for it......."oh why oh why would he EVER cheat on me...?" whining to her girlfriends.....
I haven’t had sex or received a BJ in over 10 years. I’m 60 and my wife is 66. It’s just how things have worked out.
My wife and I always fight over who gets to give oral first. It’s a fun game. But then sometimes she pulls the period card and that settles that.
I think I would tell my wife to have an intelligent conversation with a doctor. I have never heard of blowjobs causing oral cancer and I'm sure that any legitimate doctor will back me on this one. She's full of shit and just doesn't want to suck you cock.
Didn't Michael Douglas get throat cancer from eating his wife's pussy? (Of course, if I were married to her I'd be lapping at that every day.)
We don't have sex anymore. I don't force the issue as emotionally she doesn't need to deal with it along with all her other medical issues. It's a blessing that she is still here with me and is still a great companion. What she does do for me is look the other way so I can have my sexual desires satisfied by other women. So even though I get no more oral from her I get enough from other partners to make me happy.
Sometimes it just happens and we go with it. I was with my ex for 10 years. From 36 to 46 yrs old. She finally brought up BJ's after 3 months together. Said her first boyfriend came in her mouth without warning. Knowing she always wanted to know before hand. Guess it was one of those really bad gagging and coughing experiences. Hadn't done it in the 12 years following. Begged me and made me promise to give warning if i'm going to cum. Fuck yes! But, didn't go well. Started off like the tip of my cock was nitro glycerin. Light tiny licks and some lips on just the head. It was 5 min or less, and as the first clear, succulent drop of precum oozed out, her eyes seen it and the rest is history lol. She went and brushed her teeth, came back and apologized, and we continued fucking. I never brought it up for the rest of our 9 years and 9 months together. That's how it worked out for me. Thankfully, my wife is an exact opposite. Seems she can never get enough.
If ANY woman I've been with ever said no to oral ................ BYE-BYE!!! If they want me to enthusiastically lick their pussy ................ they damn well better be enthusiastically sucking my cock. What's good for the goose - is good for the gander. They name streets after people like that .................... one-way.
My GF is 65, she likes to get me drunk so she can be sure I'll want her to suck my cock. I don't need the alcohol, but why ruin a wonderful thing
I've left GF who decided sex was gonna be less frequent for no good reason before, I'm not in or at this point t in my life going to be in a long term relationship that goes through the "changes", so I haven't been with one that has been affected that way. Is would it be reasonable to say your going to get something on the side in order to see if they change there mind(yea right!), or say go ahead?
