Nick broke up with me :*(

very sound advice

its too bad heartache often prevents us from doing the above. I know I've been so heartbroken before that even though I know what you are saying here is the right thing to do, I fail at doing it.

finding inner peace in both love and life certainly can be very hard.

((penny)) - hope the good times roll for you again soon

 

ahahhaa, yeah, I've done my share of breaking up with folks

but I didn't say he was an asshole
just that if he genuinely doesn't wanna be with her and doesn't make her happy, he's not worth her time

easy to say, harder to follow through on though (what isn't these days)

 

feeling that the person is a dickhead is for your own protection. otherwise it must just be all your fault, and thinking that fucks your self esteem. its self preservation, we always attribute bad things to other peoples causing.

also he may not be an asshole, but that doesnt mean he isnt acting like a major dickface.

 

Interesting terminology.
I'll have to remember to never incur yall's wrath, eh?

 

The way the zodiac makes Sagis sound you'd think that there was always a next one lol.

 

Wow. Well... I don't know what to say, but... thanks so much everyone... some of you seem to get the story better than others... but overall, you all make me feel a teeny bit better I think I'm gonna try and meditate now...