not when you're nearly forty. when you're nearly forty you're usually just making up for a lack of a girlfriend.
I think it depends on how you define "nice guy", if one means a man who is fully matured, confident, responsible and kind, i think you will find most women will go for the "nice guy" Where as, if one means the guy who is always excessivley polite, says "sorry" all the time for no reason, has no confidence and is quiet all the time, i think most women will find the "nice guy" creepy.
i guess i just love the idea of them. and i really meant meeting a nice guy for myself. i've met plenty of nice ones who were either way out of my league or with someone
That is a very good point.... people definitely have different definitions of what a nice person (not just guy) is. Personally, I mean the first definition. I am really irritated by a guy who constantly apologizes
When I was growing up, I didn't know any girls who wanted that. They wanted the jerks and assholes; the guys who started fights and won them. We call him Mr. Undies.
Yeah my mom bagged a bad boy tough guy ended up with a 15 year long miserable relationship when his asshole-ness started picking it up a level further on down the road. But yeah idk, "nice guys" , and "bad boys"? You make it sound like just cause somebody is nice that they are boring. The so-called bad boys I meet are usually the dumb asses I have to hear about all the time from my friends who are girls. Nice guys can be wild, spontaneous, funny, REAL, interesting, FUN. Nice guys can have an edge. Nice guys can certainly get angry and experience every emotion out there. There's a difference between pretending to be nice and just saying what you wanna say and doing what needs to be done. Being nice isn't always required in life. People know pretty well they are treating others how they expect to be treated. But, Shit, really, I'd stick to just calling guys just guys because you never know who's really nice and who's really bad. I've seen nice kids do some bad ass shit when it came to throwing down or protecting somebody. And I've seen some bad kids have something else underneath that's just covered up. Give it to everybody. Don't label a guy you meet off the back. You could be cutting yourself off.
i'm not really sure how confidence and responsibility relate to niceness at all. both good traits, but nice guys or assholes could both easily possess them. also quietness. i'd consider that a neutral trait so i didn't list it with the others, but i don't see the relation to niceness. because you know about my high libido.
bad boys are just immature...it's IS like dating your brother, what do you think he acts like around his little friends? A nice guy can rob and steal and fight all he wants as long as he's sweet to women. That's how we roll
