Nice Guys Finish Last?

nice guys ALWAYS finish last. if you have a chance to stick it in a girls butt do so.
TRUST ME. girls want to be treated like shit otherwise you are gay

 

Hahahaha. One of my friends says and does exactly the same thing.

 

hmm, maybe I'm just in an I-hate-bad-boys-because-the-last-guy-was-one-and-he-was-a-giant-jerk phase, but I do genuinely want a nice kind of guy. Just, y'know, one with confidence in himself as well. One that doesn't need mothering, and is capable of making decisions on his own. Maybe i'm being too demanding

 

maybe you should just get a gay friend...i havent met a girl yet who respected a nice guy. there is only one girl anymore who i dont treat like shit and maybe someday i will marry her but she lives very far away from me

 

I laughed for like a full minute when I read this. It's just so damn silly.

 

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LIES! i don't know anyone who smokes by lighting a match and trying to stroke the flame.

 

it's an attempt to help myself quit....

 

No, my guy is a nice guy

*gigggles*

 

aww, yes you are, olhippie

*gigggles*

 

*LoL*

what a nice thread full of interesting perspectives

ok ok ok, i'll stop posting here!

 

I'm the female version of the nice guy. I get told often that I'm too nice. Completely loyal, totally understanding, don't have jealousy issues. I've had guys try to create issues to get me to break up with them. When it didn't happen, they became cowards and never actually broke up with me but instead just never called me back. After a week of depression, I figured I might as well consider myself single again and start from the beginning.

I get walked all over. The only reason I ever even end up with the "bad boy" is because I'm very shy when it comes to guys. If a guy doesn't come onto me, I usually don't end up ever letting him know that I'm interested. I don't want the bad boys. Ever. It hurts way too much then I can stand. I'm actually becoming a bit cold hearted. I'm way too pessimistic for my own good. I always believe it's going to fail because it's all I've ever known.

I've had so many downfalls and been through nearly most ways a guy could break your heart (with the exception of cheating, oddly enough). I honestly believe I was never meant for true love.

Don't mind me, after 28 months of being single I finally thought I met someone. He told me the other day that he was confused, felt like he was with his ex. Then told me not to worry, that he wanted to see me again and that he'd call me tomorrow (yesturday). He still hasn't called and I doubt he will. I'm a bit bitter at the moment.

 

yep i guess guys are as fucked up as gals n pick the ussless nutcases too !!....i too dont have jealosy issues n this makes gameing gals mad ....and i can dig the heartbreak of someone who just dont get what teamwork and real trust are all about .......just drama adicts .....theese gals chew up all the dudes i guess and normal gals just tread water .....oh well

 

yeah, nice guys always say those things that are supposed to be nice, but actually are kinda turn off like ' i like you alot, it is not because of your looks, i don't care about your looks.. i respect you and it's your inner beauty and brain.. blaablaaa' It makes you think ' I know i'm smart, but what the fuck, why am i getting this Loser-is-going-to-get-laid speach' you can say this to a fat nerd to make her feel better, but don't say this when everything is OK any ways.

 

Awww... *sulks*

 

Weeble, that kitten is adorable!

 

No, nice guys come out on top.

If it seems like girls are attracted to assholes, there are several possibilities, like you think a girl you're infatuated with is dating an asshole, or many other possibilities.

But the important part is girls are attracted to confidence. Sometimes assholes are really confident.

But you don't have to be an asshole to be assertive. You just need to have more confidence in yourself.

 

!!! What he said. Wow, most men don't seem to grasp that whole thing very well, but that was incredibly well written and succinct and stuff (unlike me)

confidence = attractive. asshole = turn off

 

Exactly!! Don't do it. It's about 1000 times as manipulative as just having fun and going with the flow...

 

Nice guys finish last?

dunno....never had the urge to be one (at least with relationships).....