Wife wants a MFF threesome :dizzy2: Its something I would never request, but we've lightheartedly discussed a few times. Been married almost five years. Now, we're serious. Lately we've been open about our sex life getting a bit stale, and she brought up the threesome topic again in a more serious light saying she really wanted to go for it. I am her only sexual partner, ever. She is not my only. We both know that can be a hard road. I've always been hesitant on a threesome as the potential impact on our marriage seriously concerned me. Still, we had a very open talk about it and I'm surprisingly open to it now. She is curious about getting pleasured by a woman, about pleasuring a woman, is excited about seeing me do it, get it done, etc. I have also made it clear I have ZERO interest in a MMF, and she confirms she does not either. My wife and I have plenty of sex, and aside from sex getting 'stale' our relationship is great. On the sex side we bring toys to bed, do it in public places, talk dirty, etc. I guess I just got a very adventurous wife. Yay me. Plus our 3 some talk turned both of us on A LOT. So, I guess I'm asking, how do we start down this road? I don't want to toot my own horn, but my wife is damn hot and is just finding that out, she's an actual national level bikini competitor and won . She would have no problem picking up a woman interested. I've been known to get plenty of attention myself. We're both socially qualified. I've never actually tried to pick up someone though, it just happens ... do I let her take the lead, or do I find the girl? What do I do? This is a serious unknown!
Lucky You!!! I would love for my woman to bring home another woman for a threesome. I wouldn't complicate things by telling her what I want. I'd figure somebody as hot as your wife will find someone that will be great for both of you. Good Luck!!!
Your OP pretty much describes my situation as well. Wife is bi-curious and I am looking to tag along for the ride. In our situation I have left this up to my wife. We may be a little different as I have given the green light for my wife to try and hook up without my involvement providing it is all out in the open. Whether it will ever happen I don't know. It would take just the right person. About our age, single, not a good friend, obviously attractive to my wife, and ultimately if it leads to a threesome cool with me too. You can use craigslist and other matching sites to try and find your unicorn. Just make sure that you have clearly defined rules in place. WHat is allowed, what is not. You don't want jealousy to come into play. Good luck
Swinging sites are your friend. I've recently started to play with couples (well the wife, I've no interest in the husband) and getting some adorable midwives to explore their curiosity with me. I don't think it's the ideal 3som situation as I don't play with the males, but they still enjoy the show.
My wife also wants an MFF threesome, but she doesn't want to have sex with the girl, she wants to watch me have sex with the girl. This sounds great—until you think about the implications. My wife is sexually inexperienced, a virgin when we met and I deflowered her, whereas I have a lot of mileage. (I'm 47, she's 24.) I've had plenty of threesomes, but I know from experience that sometimes, even with very willing partners, things can go sideways and end up in a ditch—or worse. With girlfriends past, I had no problem bringing in another woman. If the gf didn't like it, she could leave and I didn't care. But I'm married now, and we have two small children. We're a family. So I don't want to jeopardize that. On top of that, though my wife says she wants to see me doing another woman, my wife is extremely jealous, to the point where she gets pissed if I even glance at another woman on the street. So in my own case, I'm taking no chances . . . for now.
