New to experiencing bisexuality

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by bisexualmg, Feb 11, 2024.

  1. bisexualmg

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    Long story short. My ex and I separated in 2021. I have long desired sex with other men, while still enjoying sex with women. Since our separation I have explored bisexuality and have had 4 encounters with men. I enjoy giving oral and strongly desire trying anal. I found all my partners on Adult Friend Finder. However, AFF does not filter for keeping your search and your info outside a certain range and I got propositioned by my former neighbor, so that was awkward.

    I'm ok with anonymous hookups, as well and casual dating and slow foreplay

    I'm sure you all have more experience, so anything you have to offer is greatly appreciated. I'm 62 and in good shape with a steady job. I'm getting more comfortable with my bisexuality.

    Not looking at this site as a dating app, just trying to learn more and be the best version of myself, as they say, lol
     
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  2. dd788snipe

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    Welcome, you've come to the right place.
     
  3. soulpoker

    soulpoker Senior Member

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    What are your thoughts on going for your former neighbor?
     
  4. Slimflipper

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    I’d be heading over to the former neighbors. There is already that bond between you guys. I was on an app and was messaged by a guy I went to High school with. Didn’t know till we met up at his place. Worked out well and we still play a few times a month. His wife thinks nothing of it. It’s a great cover for what we really do when we are together
     
  5. thepapasmurph

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    I keep hoping one of my old friends or even people I knew in school years ago would stumble upon my profile and go with it. Maybe it is because I spent so much time as a teenager jerking off to images of these guys back then... of course, I had no idea I was really gay. how about that? shock.
     
  6. FriendlyCock

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    I was on adultfriendfinder looking for women at first. I had couple of one of's but I did not have the confidence and one session was not enough to relax me.
    I found a local guy who wanted to masturbate together. That was fun but we had no venue except our cars. We found an old bi guy living in a unit, who provided a cock sucking service. WE both went to see him and had some lovely horny 3 way suck-off sessions. I kept seeing him myself and he sucked me dry time and time again. My wife knew and from how happy I was all of a sudden she was all for it. I became a favourite of his because I sucked his cock. Most were users who stood there as he sucked them off, came in his mouth and left promptly. I saw him for years, invited him on work assignments when work put me up in a unit. I enthusiastically sucked his cock every which way, and after work
    s stress, I let him do whatever He wanted. I'd sit relaxing with a drink as he worked on my limp cock until I got a hard on and he would suck me off expertly so I lasted as long as possible. His was only a bit over two inches but with all the nerve endings in one small package, he was blown away as I spent as long as I could sucking him and working his cock in my mouth as he grunted and sighed. His come went into His bladder and I sensed it did time after time. He sadly died and I hooked up with a gay guy for mild sessions of cock sucking, until I felt I owed him some favors so I ended up pumping his ass hole for Him. I wasn't into it but he came alive with a cock in him. I only want moderate friend to friend cock sucking and play but they are out there.
     
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  7. LowHangers

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    I was in my mid-thirties when I my first wife began slowing down sexually and it was very frustrating as I was jerking off to internet porn more often than I ever expected. Then one afternoon I was asked by a guy if I'd like a blowjob. Afterwards he gave me his phone number and said, "Anytime you are in need, just call me". For the next three months or so I was stopping by his apartment after work 2-3 times a week for hour long blowjobs from him. He was the most enthusiastic cock sucker I'd ever experienced. I'd been with a number of women prior to him than never worked my cock and balls like he did. After I broke things off with him (he wanted a relationship) I was wanting to suck dick myself and do so with the same enthusiasm that he did. Craigs List was a life changer for me as I connected with so many other married men that also sucked dick. I quickly found myself sucking dick 3-5 times a week and enjoying every moment of it as my oral skills got better and better. I was now not just mutually sucking dick with other guys I had a number of guys that would stop by just so I could orally service them as I was there much needed cock sucker. I was no longer sexually frustrated begging for something from my wife that was a potential hit or miss. With other cock sucking men, it was a guarantee that we were both going to be satisfied and many times sucked several guys off to return home to my wife and hear her say she was wanting to have sex. Several times I thought for sure she would smell the cum on my breath while making out with her, but she never did. We'd have good sex together, but I kept on sucking guys off without her knowledge. I'd watch her sucking my cock, which felt great, but she could no longer live up to the many guys I was sucking dick with. I was addicted to sucking cock and not ashamed of feeling that way. I continued on to suck guys off several times a week as she was only wanting to have sex once a month or so which I also did enjoy. She was a great "69" partner, but not near as enjoyable as "69" sucking with another guy.
     
  8. Msh1313

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    Once you start sucking cock, you get addicted. Nothing beats having a man’s penis in your mouth and having him shoot his load of cum
     
  9. Barefoot Rick

    Barefoot Rick I love my dirty bare feet

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    I love when I suck a guy’s cock and he shoots his load in my mouth and I swallow every drop yummmmy
     
  10. RisingBi

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    Welcome to the wonderful world of bisexuality (or homosexuality for some). I kind of fell into it myself after a tough break up with my first girlfriend at 30. Except for childhood experimentation, I never had a gay thought (but now I realize I has been suppressing them) until after the break up, when all of a sudden powerful desires for cock and everything gay overcame me. I now understand that that suppressing of my fully gay desires continued through 20 years of cocksucking before uncontrollable anal desires with one guy one night overcame me, and I finally lost my gay virginity. It was the most extraordinary sexual experience of my life, and changed everything for me. I have to tell you, at 61 now, my desires are fully on the surface. I'm still attracted to women, but can't tell you how much I enjoy being with a guy in every way.

    So if I have any advice for you, definitely act on your anal desires while you're still single. But do so safely. Don't wait another day! You will never regret it.
     
  11. Drummer_VZ

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    New to this site. Really enjoy reading all the encounter stories. Definitely looking for a regular buddy so i can tell some of my own.
     
  12. soulpoker

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    Welcome! Hope you find yourself a fun friend too. Looking forward to your stories lol.
     
  13. Hugh_36

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    So far it’s always been during 3 somes with my gf. But the m on m interaction has been really hot, encouraged by my gf it has to be said.
     
  14. soulpoker

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    Glad you have such sex positivity!
     
  15. dvnivl

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    Early 30s here. 31 to be exact and married. Closeted and extremely bi curious. Only got to experience a man once and the urge and feelings never went away. To this day i hope for another encounter. Badly lol. Oral is definitely something I’d love to give and receive again and anal is something i desire to try. To give and absolutely to receive eventually.
     
  16. BI38DDBOOBFAN

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    hi my name is tony dms are open
     
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  17. bisexualmg

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    The more I think about it, the better it seems. He'll be discreet, which is essential in this small city.
     
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  18. soulpoker

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    Well then maybe you should get over the initial awkwardness and go for it!
     
  19. bisexualmg

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    I think I'm going to give it a shot. I would just want to be open about my desires. If he saw me on AFF, I hope he read my profile. I'm pretty much a bottom. Two others from AFF started out as tops, then admitted they were bottoms and looking foe the same thing I was.
     
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  20. Cmlovr

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    Go for it! Having someone nearby would be handy, especially if you get really horny and need something right now.

    I'm not into anal much, only did it with one friend. It felt good, though, a lot better than I thought. Like a very tight fleshlight. Not going to lie, I loved it when he started moaning like a slut with each thrust. I'm not a catcher, though. It hurts too much and takes too much effort to get him into me. One time it felt magnificent, I could feel every twitch and throb of his cock as he came.
     
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