Hi I have recently discovered I am bi sexual, and I want to have discussions with other bi sexual and gay men about gay sex and related things. I am keeping my bi life private from my wife, and have known I am bi for about 2 years. I moved from Southwestern Ontario to the Northern Bruce Peninsula (about 3 hours away) last summer. I discovered my bi side as I started to watch gay sex videos out of curiosity. I started imagining what it would be like to have sex with another man. I joined a bi/gay sex search site here in Canada, and it was somewhat successful. I was somewhat active in my pursuit of connecting with gay or bi men down in my previous area, always being careful to screen prospects and to stay clean and healthy. I do not want any disease or STI. I have had a lot of trouble finding clean, disease free, reliable men up this way. Anyone seems to be more than an hour away, not convenient for me, except when I travel for work. The other thing seems to be that most men on the site I used to find men, are either very flaky, overweight, or just seem to be there to fish for men to chat to. Some never respond when you say you are interested, I suppose many have had bad experiences with other men. I am trying to come to terms with my bi sexuality, and would love to find a reliable, clean ongoing partner. HOWEVER, I do love to chat about bi and gay sex things with other men. Also, I would love to chat about the "ethical" end of bi and gay sex. I feel that sex between men should not be frowned on, and society should accept it as much as sex between 2 women. I am married, 61 years old, fairly fit, and keep my body clean and mostly shaved. I have a healthy sex life with my wife, but find I also love to be with a man, whether it is just for mutual oral pleasure, of for anal sex. I find I prefer to bottom. There is something very exciting for me about being naked with another man, and having the sexual energy turned up several notches while we play. Hope to hear from anyone who wishes to chat of discuss man to man sex.
