hi there. I am a very very big guy, that just met the lady of my dreams who happens to be from Asian background. I am very afraid of our first encounter, but she is very very keen. I have unfortunately no idea on how to handle our very large weight difference as she is very petite.... I have am very large and have a large fat skirt hanging in between the target... I try to get some advice in handling the weight difference between us, so I get some confidence.. Anyone?