never had a girl friend

I see your pictures there. You look good, but girls tend to not judge solely on looks. They need character or some sort (which guys need too certainly, but it's impalpably different with females.) It's been the same with me, too. Generally the males are expected to assume the proactive role in commencing a relationship, something I am not comfortable with. I'm of the more passive sort. It's certainly fine for anyone to play out a heterodox role in relationships; the problem is finding someone to do it with.

I've never had a girlfriend, and I've never come close to having one. I can't immediately recall the closest I've ever been. If you'd consider some minor flirting "coming close," then that might be it, but I doubt that would you envision that if I were to say I came close to getting a relationship. I don't have a cohesive strategy for it, either. But that's okay in itself. It's only when I become truly cognizant of my relative destituteness in this field that I can become regretful. The stigmas themselves don't have much of an effect; everything is produced by my mind.

 

Don't force it. Just let it happen...and don't flip about about being single. What's the big deal? Just be yourself baby.

I'm going to be 19 here in a couple of weeks, and I've never had a boyfriend. I couldn't be happier about it. I don't think people should date in highschool, or as young kids, I don't think they're mature enough to handle it. Of course there are individual differences...but highschool is stressful enough as it is.

Trust me, there's nothing wrong with not dating. The way I see it...relationships need to happen organically. Just be the best friend you can be and put yourself out there...if you start to fall for a girl, go for it. But don't go around picking up random chicks.

Unless this is all about sex,then by all means, go find the prettiest thing you can and pick that shit UP!

 

thanks boo

 

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