Never done it like that (anal)

My better half and I have been together for seven years now. (WOW go me)

The sex is great (but far few and in-between) I would like to do something off the wall. to keep her coming back for more as is were. I was thinking but sex.:blush5:

Let me give back ground
Her daughter blurted out once (as she was leaving the room mad) Well you like it up your ass or something to that effect.
we were at the adult shop and she pointed out anal beads of some short. As in lets try that.
we were drinking one night she wouldn't let me go down on her (from behind so I just aimed a little higher and licked her ass)
she didn't protest at the time but after said what the hell was that.
Also I have run a finger around her ass hole while inside her. she hasn't said anything about not liking it.

If it were you what would be your next move

 

Do the daughter.

 

Anal play is really great, but you do need to be very gentle as it can be very painful if not done right, and if she finds it painful she probably won't let you near her ass again, and that would be a shame. You need to get lube! Lots and lots of lube, try giving her oral, and as your licking her clit, use your finger to stimulate the outside of her anus, if she likes it then go a little further...... Try sliding one finger in to her ass as you continue to lick her pussy/clit, and remember to use lube!! I recommend us ring coconut oil as lube, it doesn't dry out, doesn't get sticky, smells great and tastes pretty good too, also it's safe to use internally vag/ass. It also makes a great massage oil. Don't go head on and try ramming your cock up her ass, it will hurt and she won't like it, take your time, do a little bit of play and see how it goes, then move on to a finger, my partner loves when I lick her pussy/clit while fingering her G spot and with a finger in her ass, she cums hard and fast!! You should think about investing in some toys... Anal beads, butt plugs..... And if she likes it and really gets into doing it you should let her return the favour! Notting like a blowjob while getting your ass/prostate fingered fucked!! Anyway just take it slow and enjoy the experience. Lube lube lube lube!!!

 

I agree with Irish. You can't use enough lube and take it really slow at first. A bad first time will ruin it for her and that will be the end of it. After a few times she'll start getting use to it and you'll really get to have fun. Done the right way anal is amazing

 

With toys, start really small. It can be difficult to relax just starting out. and vibrations can help, as long as the toy is small. A huge vibrating plug will not be help till she can be ok with little things, and may cause a fight. A fight can mean no sex of any kind for a long time.

And while coconut oil is fine for skin, do some toy research. You may also need a water based lube so you don't chemically break down the plastic you are using.

 

I would have taken the first hint. Talk to her about it. Good Luck.

 

talk to her and go shopping again, buy some anal toys, start small remember to buy lube
best thing of all is to be relaxed,

 

thanks for the reply's coconut oil sounds nice ,toys sounds fun.

do the daughter only if I could barrow someone else's cock for it (I know were she's been)

 

So how did it go? Any update?

 

I agree with the post above. You need to be sure to take it slow and use lube if you are wanted to do anal. And you should also communicate with her. I personally think that anal is something to talk something to talk about with your partner before preforming.