alright. me and my gf have been together for about two months now. and we make out and mess around quite a bit. mostly its just making out while dry fucking (rubbing our two areas together with clothes on). shes acually came while we did this. anyways it sometimes leads to her grabing my penis and rubbing it on the top of my pants. and other times she teases me pretty good. shes given me a blowjob and i have somewhat licked her pussy. didnt go very far though. anyways. we have been talking about having sex when the time is right. and i am experienced with this particular issue. ive had sex many more times than she (2) and both of those times they were the "wham bam thank you mam" kinda thing. nothing special and nothing pleasurable. i want to change this. the only problem is that. my penis is quite larger than both of the two people she had sex with before. a substancial difference acually. im about 8 or 9 inches and pretty thick..and she explained to me how she only had about 5 inches inside her between the two guys and they werent thick. anyways. i know its going to be a little painful for her to have sex with me the first time so id liek to make it as special as i can so it wouldnt matter as much and she could look past the pain. anyways. id just like to know a few things i could do to make the experience that much better because she means a hell of alot to me and i want to make it the most special sexual experience of her life.