Need some advice about anal please

Right. The only time you really shouldnt do it is right when she has to take a shit. Otherwise, you are good to go.

 

My ex loved anal as much as vaginal,she used to go into moods if she hadnt had anal for several days,even at that time of the month she would insist that we still have sex, anally of course. Yes you do from time to time have a little feceas on your dick but a little washing soon removes that,dont let it spoil your fun. As for your wife not wanting anal so often it may be that she thinks you prefer that ,make love to her the way she enjoys it most and the anal will return.

 

Yeah, but thats not a biggy! My wife loves anal and we do it all the time. Yes, she does shit from there but its also a great place for a dick. Shes joked that her asshole didnt do much until we started regular anal sex. Alls it did was poop! How boring....

As for being icky - I suppose its not for everyone. Lots of people find the dirtyness factor a turn-on.

 

Nice... Instant Poop Recognition! Me likes it.

Yeah, the ick thing isnt a big deal for us. She says its all "up to me" as far as cleanliness is concerned meaning if I dont mind a *little* mess then she doesnt either. We just go at it and have fun. Ive had a little shit on my dick here and there. Not an issue. That being said - too much would be BAD but thats never happened to us in 6 years. Cant say if Ive ever felt anything up there....hmmm....



If you are going to do anal then you cant be "scared" of a little poo poo. Its part of the deal. Like you said, make a game of it.

 

s2lizard and I have something in common, we've both been having anal sex with our wives for a while.

And yes, anal is a great part of our sex life as well. We do it just as much as we do vaginal if not more because like you said during her period we do strictly anal.

I agree with the fact that from time to time I may get a little spec or smear of feces on my member but it's not often and it's never in a large quantity. Most of the time it's too small for me to even smell it.

My wife says orgasming while on her period helps her to relieve pms and cramps, I have found this to be true. Since I don't eat her pussy we usually use a vibe on her clit and she cums in less than 5 minutes of anal and her toy.

The butt just feels sooooo good. My wife likes it when I go DEEP, she said it kinda pushes her to the edge where it hurts a little but feels really good. I personally like long deep strokes, I will go at a decent pace but not too fast because I like to feel the rings or ribs inside her rectum.

 

I find that in order to get a girl to orgasm with anal I have to take a long time getting about half of my cock in. I'm extra large so time is needed for that first part. Then the long deep strokes all the way and back out at slow pace until her hole can take all of it each pump. Sometimes I rub her clit or she will. Then very hard forceful pumps once her anus has gaped. Vary speeds from slow to fast. When she starts to cum bury it all in and keep grinding, then pull all out, let her anus close, then jam all back in again. Repeat several times. If your girl friend or wife cums from anal sex then this technique will have them shaking, quivering and her pussy will be a fountain of fluid! I realize not all girls are probably like this so don't expect magic if you are with a newbie. Especially an average girl who has been taught to think of anal sex as wrong or bad.

 

Get her a butt plug start off small and use wet platinum lube and let her masturbate with it and get used to it then over time she can take u easy

 

These guys are right on the money good advise.
Shit isn't stored in the rectom till u need to go.
Never have anal if u have a small cut or tear on your dick!
After anal wash your dick with soap and water and pee so no bacteria is in your dick.

 

Dude this is linehaul's girlfriend...
I had never really had anal play before he and I started dating... To be honest had never really even thought much about it!!! We now have been almost a year strictly anal!!! I love that he has such amazing orgasms !!! And even mine are so intense that I almost pass out!!! Just take it slow and easy and she will be begging you to make love to her ass!!! I know it feels so completely amazing to us that neither one of us want anything else!!!! Of course we do use dildos from time to time for double penetration !!! Which is OMG!!! Good luck!!! From linehaul's anal princess!!! ;-))

 

Reply for Rikuna: In Response to ---
Originally Posted by rikuna
well you see the thing is that we have talked and she knows how much i like anal. and she her self has told me she likes it too, also her ass is usually very clean though at times she has worried about poop in there. I always let her know that it was all ok and nothing disgusting was in there. She doesn't give me any particular reason for not doing it more often. I'm always gentle with her and take the time to prepare her hole when ever we do anal.

and I'm just wondering, is it possible to have her want anal by playing with her butt hole by like licking it and teasing it with the finger? or does a woman have to already crave it to want it?

Dude this is linehaul's girlfriend... Yah I am Lucky....
I had never really had anal play before he and I started dating... To be honest had never really even thought much about it!!! We now have been almost a year strictly anal!!! I love that he has such amazing orgasms !!! And even mine are so intense that I almost pass out!!! Just take it slow and easy and she will be begging you to make love to her ass!!! I know it feels so completely amazing to us that neither one of us want anything else!!!! Of course we do use dildos from time to time for double penetration !!! Which is OMG!!! Good luck!!! From linehaul's anal princess!!! ;-))

 

Don't do it. That's all. No anal.

I'm kidding. You can do what you want. I promise not to judge you for it.

 

soulcompromise.... Are you talking to me??

 

I would respect her wishes, and if it is a deal breaker for you then get a new girlfriend. Don't make her do anything she doesn't like. That is a bad path to go down.