Need help with unfamiliar territory: Never gone down on a girl with a bit more labia minora.

Greetings all you Hip & Sexy folk!!

I tend to write to much... about everything... so if you wanna get to the specs, just jump down to TL;DR.

So. I am no stranger to having my face mashed into a lady's wonderful of wonderfuls, but I must admit, those times were all with a vagina that were similar to all the others. That is to say, negligible labia.

And a while back, after a lotta good years, and then some really hard years, my wife and I decided to separate.
There is no ill will between us, people just change, you know? And more recently my ex, and basically every other close friend and family member of mine, have pushed me to start dating again(I'm 39, and in great shape). I basically ignored them. My relationship with my wife was just so intense, and emotionally exhausting, I was in no hurry to jump back on that train. (Also she was pushing the envelope for a 10/10 hottie fuckin smoke show. I felt like I did the best I could and, meh?)

But....

a few weeks ago another female from my past, one that I crushed on hard for as long as she was around my life, came tornado'ing back into my life. She had ditched her man and school program in another city and came "home".

We somehow became aware we were both in the same city again, long story shorter I took her to dinner/movie last Saturday, it went awesome, and there was some very naughty touching going on in that theater...

...which is where I noticed that her lady parts are wildly different than any others that I have had the pleasure of pleasuring(there are three specifically that I got to know quite well).

Her labia minora were very large compared to what I knew, and though the fingers managed to find the sweet spot so she could enjoy that explosive enjoymeny, I am nervous as fuck about the mouth/tongue finding the same. And I am pretty sure she is making noises about spending the night at my place (she is staying with her mom while she looks for her own space).

And if that happens, I will tongue dive on that babe ASAP.

So my question, to anyone who can help me with this issue at all, how does a mouth do best on a vagina with larger labia?

Should I suck them? Should I ignore them and just head for the Clit Commander? A bit of both? How about fingers? Should I pull on them like nipples?

I am really just in the Dark about this.

And fuck I am just diggin' this chic so much... I want her to tell me I am the best she's ever had.


TL;DR - Only ever had tongue fun with vaginas with tiny labia. New tongue recipient has larger labia. How do I please this Vagina best?

 

been with everything from tight little innies to full blown roast beef sandwich, with the meatier ones i tend to spread them with my fingers and alternate between licking and sucking their clit, but as with anything communication is your best bet, gotta see what they like and work with it. Eating pussy might be my favourite thing. I'm sure you'll do great, get back out there and enjoy the variety.

 

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I advise to pay attention to all her parts, they all matter. Lick, kiss, suck, maybe nibble
If you don’t try, you don’t discover, and she misses out.

Excellent examples: I discovered breasts that are orgasmic with 3 women in their 30’s because no other men bothered playing with them enough. The women didn’t know that about themselves either.

There is no shame in trying and making your partner feel good and special. And there is regret wondering what if when it’s too late.
Don’t let the TOO LATE happen to you.

 

Perry raises a good point about the self conscious ones, as i said i love eating pussy, usually first thing i do when i'm hooking up with a woman for the first time and there have been a handful over the years that were terrified of me going down on them, insisting i didn't have to or claiming they didn't know if they even liked it, usually involved a bit of coaxing and asking them to try it and if they didn't like it we'd stop, well i've never had one ask to stop and usually having their pussy eaten was their new favourite thing.

I remember one friend i had an affair with took a lot of convincing and she eventually gave in and loved it, i could go down on her for hours. Apparently her ass hole husband at one point had made a comment about how child birth had ruined her pussy, but that was just him blaming her for him being an alcoholic who couldn't get it up