I try my hardest to make my man cum when I'm doing oral, but I can never get it to happen I try to focus on my lips on the corona (edge of the head) , rolling back and forward over it, trying my hardest not to use my teeth. But it never seems to go anywhere, and he eventually gets softer I think out of boredom maybe? Can I please get some tips? Anything? I don't want to keep disappointing him. Thanks!!
You should check out this thread. Want to be the best- fellatio. I can't speak for him, but I'm sure your doing it just fine. He should speak up and let you know what he likes. If it's a new experience for him it might take some practice. It didn't happen for me the first handful of times either, and I had no complaints on how she was doing it.
Try laying with your head on his belly facing his cock. Take it in your hot hungry little mouth and encourage him to fuck it just as he would your vagina giving him control of pace/timing etc.
In my experience guys may not be able to cum each time you perform oral on them. Don't take it personally either. Give him the visual trust me he's enjoying it a great deal but he's not always going to be able to cum from it. Definitely talk about it openly before, after or during it. I tend to be verbal during it asking if he likes it, does that feel good, what would he like me to do etc. You'd be surprised when your asking him as he's watching you he'll tell you and guide you. It makes him feel more comfortable that you're open to that and the stress is eliminated. Just my experience. Could be different for others.
Before reading about it on the internet, I had no idea some men couldn't climax from a blowjob. But it seems it is quite common. Did you ask him what he likes? Perhaps there is a spot that feels great for him and would make him come. I've asked my husband what he likes. I ask all men. I give my first bj to a guy just doing what I like to do and what I think works. Afterwards, when we're chatting, I ask if it was OK, if there are things he likes I didn't do, if there are things that turn him off, if there are things other women did that were very good. We never stop learning and we can always do better.
If you encase the shaft of his penis with your hand, it helps. But, as others have said, sometimes it just doesn't happen. Trust me, he enjoyed your BJ, right up until he became embarrassed because he didn't cum. At which point "Damn you're so big. That got me so horny. Eat me right NOW!" is your line.
I found that my wife likes feedback..if you are doing something he particularly likes, ask him to TELL you..grunts , moans and groans are a turn on, but I have found I will NEVER! turn down ANY blowjob...but I particularly like it, when she goes off 'the beaten path', and tries different things, to get my feedback...verbally...after a while, and lots of practice, you will get what you want..and TRUST me..he loves you doing it.. Another thing...when I was with my first wife..she would NOT!!! let me cum in her mouth..so I found that I was holding back..psycologically ?..unable to cum, due to many years of NOT! cumming.Just tell him to RELAX!..and let you do your part..and NOT! hold back..it worked with me... Oral sex is the BIGGEST! turn on for me..just having someone want to pleasure you SOOOOOO!!!..much, to see the reaction on your face after..good luck..and keep practicing!
Seriously you should ask him to tell you what he likes. Tell him you want to please him and tell him you want some pointers. If he tells you you're doing fine then ask him why he goes soft. Maybe he is bored and just doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
