Hi Guys my name is akki duke, from india.My age is 18 years.I am currently in a problem. i was masturbating since i was 12 years old. I am a single child of single mother. Most of the times i live alone at home. I passed 12th class (senior high school) 2 years back in 2012.And i had 2 year drop from my college. And now 2014 i took admission in Engineering college.I will start going this week. I was facing a depression of leaving college after taking admission in 2013. During this period of 2 years i have masturbated alot.Sometimes daily for a week.sometime with some one,two days gap. I have masturbated alot during this period. I always masturbate watching porn. I mostly watch porn on my mobile. Because of execcessive masturbation, i have become weak,can't walk normally I have lost all my social life. I live almost always at home.staying in my bed. I never had a girlfriend in life. i have loosed my all confidence. I can't even go out and buy something. I feel tired after 15 min. of walking. I want to take my life back. Pls help me guys to stop this.
dude i did it, theres support forums out there. start working out and eating healthy and taking vitamins. also, at first you will notice its hard to sleep without rubbing out a giggidy. i personally found this to be the hardest time because your just laying in bed with boner tent that wont let you sleep. when i started i had to jerk off to fall asleep, but after a few days you can ignore it and fall asleep. once you have your first 24 hours under your belt (lol) your good, untill you start having sex dreams. then its just all mental. if you fail after a day or two, just keep on trying for longer and longer periods. at first i went about a week and that kept repeating for a while, but i was glad it wasnt an everyday thing anymore, then eventually i was able to go 20 days, then 30 days, then i just stoped counting. i estimate my longest time is probably around 2 to 3 months but with sex in between. and this is what you can expect if you suceed: more energy, more focus, more motivation, you feel more "balanced" and generally healthier. you will build more muscle and the higher testosterone will just make you manlier in just about every way. my favorite thing, and the reason why i do this, is that you will be overloaded with a creepy prowler-like horniness. if a girl so much as bumps in to you or you catch a sniff of a girls hair, you will get hard instantly. its been my experience that girls love boners. it gives you a good confidence boost, and gives you the "hunger" to push yourself to the limit to get laid. i also noticed that im a pervert, which is awsome, and i just take way more risks now (socially) because i konw i dont have the luxury of settling for my hand.
also, i forgot to say, im here for you bro! if you ever have a "hard night" (lol) just post here and i guarantee, it goes away in like 3 minutes. thats all you gotta do, survive 3 minutes!
[SIZE=14.3999996185303px]thanks IMjustfishin i needed to hear that, I also have been trying to stop for a couple years , and I can go for about 3days- a week, but then i crumble and watch too much porn and don't do much apart from laze around and sleep too much.[/SIZE]
Is it really masturbating that is the problem? Maybe it's more the lying around doing nothing and watching too much porn (nothing wrong with porn, but everything in moderation). Sounds like it's more that you are bored. What would you like to do if there was no limitations on things like money, transportation, companionship, etc?