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Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by TreeBong, May 5, 2014.

  1. TreeBong

    TreeBong Guest

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    I'm 16 years old, and I just scheduled to give a blow job to an older gentleman.

    We decided we're going to do it in some woods near my house.

    I'm a bit nervous for my first time, I just need some general advice (what to do, how to give good blow jobs, etc.)

    Male and female are both welcome in this discussion thread.

    Please help.
     
  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    you scheduled? and he agreed to it? if an underage kid told me "be at such and such location at this time for a blowjob" i would assume it was a police set up.
     
  3. princessokay

    princessokay Member

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    And you haven't detected any red flags yet?
     
  4. odonII

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    I presume being 16 you wear braces? Take them out -_-

    (16 is legal in the UK)
     
  5. cutepirate

    cutepirate Banned

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    scheduled?...weird man!...i smell rats....but still this goes for you
    http://www.sofeminine.co.uk/guide/relationships/f5975-oral-sex-for-him.html

    http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/advice/oral-sex-tips#slide-2


    1.it should not be mechanical
    2. tip of the penis....
    3.ocasional lick on his thighs...
    4.use of choclate....that will add pleasure to you.
    and there are many more...

    Oral sex tip #9: Sexually transmitted diseases

    When giving (or receiving) oral sex, be aware that hepatitis B, fungal infections and other STDs can be passed on via oral sex and blow jobs. The risk of HIV transmission from performing oral sex is low but it can still happen. If you’re unsure of your partner's sexual past, use a condom.

    Mouth infections can also be transmitted via oral sex and remember never to give head when you have a cold sore unless you want to give him herpes!
    Oral sex tip #10: Overcoming reservations



    If you don’t feel comfortable with giving oral sex, remember there’s no point forcing yourself: he’ll feel it if you’re not happy and won’t get as much pleasure out of it.

    The goal is shared pleasure and excitement. Talk to him about it and you might find you change your mind in time. Blow jobs should be a pleasure for both of you, knowing you're turning him on is a turn on in itself.
    but the last thing i would say is...dont force yourself into it...beacause that is something i would never want my partner to do...cant say about other guys...but i wont...

    hope it helps.
     
  6. se7en_sins

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    What is your definition of 'older' anything about 30 I would steer clear of. You are way too young for that particularly if this is your first time. And also remember there are plenty of 'queen bashers' or cowards as I would like to call them around the web.

    Always be safe and try to play with those around your age until you are a bit older. This is just my opinion as a 33 year old who has been with guys since I was 18 (he was 21).
     
  7. TreeBong

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    To answer a few misconceptions:

    I am from the United States, Michigan specifically. The man I'm meeting with is 55. And lives 25 minutes away.

    We exchanged nude photos as well.

    We met on Craigslist.
     
  8. TreeBong

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    I can also bring pepper spray and condoms to the place we agreed to meet.
     
  9. RandomVegan

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    bring a shovel to make it more convenient for him to bury you

    I would not meet someone from online in a place that was not public - if you can't establish he is safe from several meetings first (or he refuses to let you learn about him or see him in public) it is not safe.
     
  10. TreeBong

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    He told me his name, and screen name, and street address of which I googled all of it. Everything appeared normal.
     
  11. RandomVegan

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    Jeffery Dahmer SEEMED "normal" until they dug up around his house

    http://crime.about.com/od/serial/a/dahmer.htm
     
  12. Just_a_woman

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    Nobody would be that stupid.
     
  13. KingWilly

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    Wow, I'm 40 and have never had a "scheduled" BJ in my life. What have I been doing wrong?!?
     
  14. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Blow and go are often set ups.
    Have a safe call. That is someone who expects a call from you at a certain time and will call police if they don't get it. That person will need to know exactly where you are meeting the dude.

    And, please, find someone near your own age. Have real companionship!
     
  15. expanse

    expanse Supporters HipForums Supporter

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    If you are not posting that as a joke, just don't do it. Seriously, nothing good will result from the meetup, and lots of bad could result. Just stay at home or hang out with friends.
     

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