:& Wow, I got myself into a really bad situation and need some advice... I am legally married to a man who's been overseas for the past year, nearly, and we've done nothing but fight the whole time we've been married. We got married June 27, 2005, and he left the states the beginning of September. We decided on a divorce many months ago, and I got on with my life, ended up moving in with my high school sweetheart, who I've been good friends with, first as merely friends, but then it developed into something more... Now husband is returning to the states in early September, and wants his wife back, is willing to do what it takes, though he's not pleased with my choice to get into a relationship before divorce papers were signed. (Divorce papers were not signed b/c he was out of the country.) I feel I did the best I could, and made all the choices I could the best I could with the knowledge I had. Husband has said some awful, nasty things out of anger since the divorce was settled upon. HS Sweetheart has been nothing but good to me through all of this, even supported me temporarily when I lost my job. I still have love in my heart for husband, and feel I owe it to him & myself to give it one last try, but fear breaking my sweetheart's heart, and fear making the wrong decision between the two... Returning to husband also means moving to Tennesee, then, in a couple years, to the west coast, though I live in New England now. Any advice? Please remember, I already am quite aware I brought this on myself, and this choice is my punishment, please no scolding!