i currently have a boyfriend, and have been with him for about 2 years and I initially adored him, every last detail about him was perfect, but then recently, he's been really turning me off. he doesn't do anything for me. since I dont enjoy our sex together, he has decided that he doesn't have to touch me or kiss me in the those places he once did, becasue he thinks sex is the only way to give eachother pleasure, that is the only way meant for a man and woman, so he thinks. so, as you can all see i am very frustrated with the situation. and lately have been having curiousity about the same sex, femminine girls that are attractive have always been alurring to me. i am very femminine myself, and am attractive. i do not have any masculine tendencies, although i can sometimes be bitchy. does anybody have any advice on this subject, does anybody have/had a boyfriend that you and him had this problem? what does one suggest i do, take my female curiosity a step further? break up with my boyfriend and try another man? I'm really frustrated and also scared to loose my boyfriend becasue he's a wonderful person but just bad in bed.