So me and my wife of 9 years watched 50 shades of grey a couple weeks ago, and she started showing some interest in some of the stuff which lead to talking about some ideas but she is on the shy side.. So I just randomly sent her a text with a link of sexual fantasies and one of them that she replied with was group sex and I was a bit shocked so replied with umm k with who... And she responded back saying JK checking to see if you were paying attention.. So was she really joking or what? I haven't tried bringing it up since.. We don't watch porn often together well other then me solo quick fix Thanks for your time and input
I don't think you actually need a woman's input. I'm not married, I have never been in a relationship as long as you have. I really don't know. I think the person who best knows the answer is yourself. Nine years is a long time to get to know how someone thinks. I think deep down your probably know the answer to your question, but possibly its not the answer you were wanting. I think this is really between yourself and your wife. Outside advice would only confuse.
