Need a woman's advice, please!

Just leave her alone and move on.

Maybe she regrets everything, or maybe she just isn't interested anymore.

 

Oiy you. lol

 

Well, not sure anyone remembers this post (or cares lol) but we eventually ended up reconnecting and have another date planned in the near future. Guess I will just see where it goes!

 

Woo hoo! Patience is a virtue. Good luck!

 

Thank you!

 

Now, don't over play your hand - you know it's a sure thing. Plan ahead. Park a little more strategically this time in a more private place. Leave the seat back a bit...and if she goes down the same path as before, just let it happen - lie back and enjoy every second of it. Maybe she'll come back home with you this time, maybe the last time was a test .... Let us know how it works out.

 

Thank you, will do! A learning opportunity for sure. And such a beautiful woman. I am very lucky.

 

Thanks for all the advice and encouragement everyone. Second date was a resounding success — connected on every level including mental and physical. It was amazing. Third date tomorrow! Very lucky (and happy) guy here.

 

Don’t let that p**sy go to your brain. Just sayin.

 

Well, we are about eight dates in now. Things are going very well, physically and otherwise. Still not sure why things unfolded the way they did on that first date but I am certainly happy with the result. Thanks again for all the advice!

 

so where is it at now? Still together?

 

Hopppy, I could not have written a better script.

Things played out the way they did during that first date, and in her ghosting me for a couple of weeks after that night, because (unbeknownst to me at the time) she was sort of caught up in an unfulfilling casual sex lifestyle, full of heartache and mistreatment.

I really liked her before and during that first date in November, so I bucked conventional dating wisdom and chased after her, ultimately leading to her decision to give in and go out with me in late December, as I described. She indicated that it felt nice, and different, to be pursued and respected.

We have been dating seriously and have had a wonderful time together. I can’t help it, but I’ve fallen in love with her. Not that it’s the most important thing, but the sex has been, without a doubt, the best of my life, and everything keeps getting better.

I really appreciate everyone’s advice and encouragement!

 

Congrats I hope it all works and treat her like a queen

 

Well, I guess that passing on that first bj in the parking lot turned out to be quite a good investment.

 

You tend to forget that women have a monthly cycle, so after a hot experience, you often need to wait a few weeks.
It is a mistake that many guys make.