Been with my guy now for almost a year, we've had loads of issues and stuff and sadly we still do I love him more than anything and he says that he thinks he loves me (I'm his first relationship) He makes me feel so special when we're together but when we aren't I just hate the way he is with me, so distant and cold (we only really see each other on a weekend because he works all through the week and he doesn't like me travelling to see him) Please don't say he's cheating on me because we've argued about that loads and he swears blind he isn't, he's always honest with me about stuff Just dunno what to do I love him more than anything and ill never find anyone like him again but I don't know if I should stay with him
If he "thinks" he loves you, he doesn't love you. You sound young when you say you'll never find anyone like him again. Trust me though, if this relationship ends, that feeling will pass, and you will find someone else, probably better in some ways, probably worse in others, but trust me - that feeling of someone else being the only special and important person on earth to you will pass and be transferred on to someone else until you realize there's no such thing as "the one". There are many people you are compatible with. If something doesn't work, trust that there is something else out there.
he doesn't want to see you 5 days a week? i'm a huge introvert, so i understand more than most people the need for alone time, but if i've been in a relationship for a year then i've reached the point where being with that person is preferable even to being alone, pretty much any time. since he's apparently not cheating, i wonder if he's just afraid to break it off because you're his first girlfriend. i can't think of any other good reason for him to be like that.
Whenever something just doesn't make sense, there is always something that you don't know. Whatever that is, it will make perfect sense once you know it . Read that again babybell. There is something you do not know. And the closer you get to it, or if he feels you are getting close to knowing it - he will become very defensive and angry. That is a tell-tale sign he is doing something he doesn't want you to know. And whatever that is bell - you will not like it, otherwise he wouldn't be hiding it from you. An important lesson of the day for you in your very young life - don't be someone's fool.
