Yeah if that's the only reason they are with them, but if a person loves someone, it only stands to reason that you would want them to be the best person they can be, regardless of financial standing, because you love them and know that the only way THEY can be happy is to actually strive for better things while, at the same time, staying with them through whatever hardships they may come across; whether those hardships involve money, addiction, jailtime, or whatever. Ignorance must be bliss, dude.
You need to improve your reading comprehension skills man. Notice I said that if a person needs to strive for better things in order to make THEMSELVES happy/fulfilled, and if you love them, it shouldn't matter. Like I said, if a couple is to be happy, then BOTH halves of the couple have to be happy. If one is unhappy or unfulfilled, then the other will be unhappy and unfulfilled too, regardless of how much money they have. And air freshener doesn't work, unfortunately. You NEED to stop questioning my manhood, because you know nothing of what I've done or what I've been through. And you're certainly ignorant, as I said. I didn't say that to insult you. You're just not listening to shit......or you're just trollin like a bitch. You also need to learn how to use the "QUOTE" button.
Like I said....reading comprehension. I said "if YOU love someone and the only way THEY can be happy....". "You" as in "You" and "they" as in "your significant other". And no I am not addicted to the idea of progression, but if you're stuck in a bad situation, as I have been many times, progression may be necessary to reach your goal and, thus, happiness. You can have someone who loves you with all of their heart and who will stay with you through whatever, but that doesn't mean they will be happy and it may not be the best thing for them to stay, even if they choose to. It just means they love you and don't want to abandon you or that they want to stick it out until you're both happy and financially stable and to a point in life where the both of you can be happy. I don't know how I can explain it any more clearly.
whoever said that was the definiton of them bettering themselves? to msot people, that means doing what makes them happy and less stressed. back to the original question... porn and strip clubs are different things. but i dont think that a poll of random internet people is gonna change your bf's mind
Hmmmm..... Yeah, I suppose they are slightly different. I don't think there's that much difference to make it an issue though. I do know one thing. No matter if the girl is a stripper, porn star or average everyday woman on the street...none of them are interested in me. By the way, there are still guys that won't go down on a girl? What's up with that?
Hey thanks for having my back, that guy is an asshole. What I WAS saying was the same thing that you were making a point about, better thereself as in THEY being a happier person with their life, I wouldn't want to be with someone who doesnt care and lets things go to hell and is suicidal and shit.
Strip clubs are sad, almost as sad as people who regularly visit them. Ironically though, I just finished watching The Full Monty, great movie that one.
Well, if it involves definded me, go for it. That guy was an ass. He deserves to have his penis cut off and forced to eat it.
Maybe so, I mean, they are all sexy and stuff... I'm jealous, they're definately more woman than I am. a