My wife with other men

My wife is a Filipina and also very tight. Our first experiences of sharing her were in Japan and the Philippines, and she was never stretched out, just wet with her partners cum. But then we moved to the States (or in my case I came home), and it took a little while for her to go out with anyone. Yes, I too am addicted to those sloppy seconds. When things finally worked out for her to go out with someone, he was a guy somewhere around 6 foot, and had a big thick cock. So much so that she was actually afraid to take it in (I was the largest she had when we met in Japan, and it was painful to her at first). It took her a few months of fooling around with him before she actually had sex with him, and I indeed found her to be stretched out. Even a night or two later I could still notice it, though not as much. He ended up being her lover for almost two decades, and she even travelled with him several times, once to a funeral, and the second time on a cruise to the Bahamas, etc. I noticed that when she returned she was stretched out for a few days longer than her normal dates. It was quite a turn on to slide into her after he had stretched her out.

 

I always wondered if my wife would enjoy me after her big, dicked friend but she did. I wonder did you ever make it a threesome? I never thought I would like to watch her with another man. I can say there was a difference from when we traded with another couple and the men were not nearly as well-endowed as her FB.

 

We started swinging before we got married, so she was pretty much free to do as she pleased. I can't say I was jealous, nervous, anxious, don't know what to call it. All worked out and watching her enjoy having sex with another man was good and she watched me with other women.

 

We too started before we were married, and a couple times after….. same guy. my emotions included, nervous, anxious, and some jealousy….. but that is part of the draw. But I could not understand, is that she was fine with having sex with another man, but no way in hell could I have sex with another woman. Whatever happened to “what is good for the goose is good for the gander “?

 

And yet of all her lovers, I was the one knew her body best, and could bring her to multiple orgasms. So I never worried about his size.

We never did a threesome with him, he would have not agreed and was very much in love with my wife and wished I was not in the picture. However, unbeknownst to him, I started listening in from her phone, and then this eventually led to me being able to watch many times through Facebook messenger. He thought she was just charging her phone.

It did happen with someone else.

 

You are right that's not fair.

 

One thing about my wife after she was with him alone or we had a threesome and I was there. when we got alone, she was still horny as hell and wanted more.

 

my ex-wife always met with her lover alone. I wanted to at least watch more make a MFM out of it, but HE said no. Ex was fine with that. HIS wants came before mine. But you are correct. Whenever she came home from a “date“ she was horny as hell, and so was I. I had to go down on her right away until she came, And then it was my turn. She felt so different! it did not take long for me to add to the mix! When it was my turn, I would look down and see just how “coated” my cock was.
With my current wife, it was somewhat different. After our first MFM I had to take our friend back to where he was staying, and when I got back home, I found her just as I had left her. Naked on her back on the bed, and she was still horny after at least a half a dozen orgasms. The reclamation sex was incredible. Later, I offered her the opportunity to hook up with him alone, but she said no….. I had to be there. Why I don’t know.
Water under the bridge.

 

This has certainly kept our sex life very live and well. There were many times when I would drive through my neighborhood and think, 'all these married couples, the longer they are together the less frequently they have sex. After a while its once a week, then once a month... Man, they don't know what they are missing!'

I think it is fairly common for a couple to settle in to sex only a few times a month or so. And then one of them takes on a lover or a mistress. And suddenly that person is like a rabbit in heat. So why not bring that energy into the relationship? An active sex life keeps us young and healthy!

There are so many times when she would get home from a date, and we would have sex a couple of times that night, and the next day. And the day after that...

 

It took quite a while before she would allow me to have sex with another girl. It was another Filipina that we knew. But then the girl, a divorcee, started getting feelings for me. We tried to get her to go out with others (even got to enjoy sloppy seconds with her) but then she claimed that I was the only one that could bring her to orgasm. She started to become more attached and so my wife put her foot down.

But all the years that I could not go out with another girl, I enjoyed the extramarital excitement through my wife.

I knew that such would be the case going into it. She was always extremely jealous of any attention from other girls. In the Philippines I had to hide my girl watching (and I love girl watching). In Japan I could no longer work because she was so jealous---if she called into an office where I got a new job, she would immediately insist that I was dating the receptionist who answered the phone. And to be honest, as a blonde haired foreigner in Asia there were many many opportunities that came up for a sexual liaison, but after I met her, I never fooled around. But there were many unwarranted arguments and fights during those years. It took a long time for her jealousy to quiet down.

 

I guess you might say that we started before we were married too.

Let me go back a few years to a girl I met in my last year of High School. She was in college and we met over a bag of mushrooms. She looked just like Bridgette Bardot to me. We would get high and have sex at her place. Then she started sharing me with her friends, she enjoyed watching and then having sex with me afterwards. We'd even have sex in the wet spot from her friend. When I went off to college she would encourage me to go on dates and then tell her everything we did. Sometimes Id just make up stories.

But I wanted to experience the same thing she was experiencing----I wanted to watch her have sex and then be with her afterwards. We would often talk about it, and she would act like she would like it, but nothing ever happened. One time this guy from down the hallway from her place came over with some drug he wanted us to try. We were in bed when he knocked on the door, and I put on some pants but she came out completely naked, and I thought, 'Oh man! This is it!' She even sat crosslegged on the couch from him. And his eyes were all over her. But it didn't happen.

So it was a long time fantasy to have sloppy seconds. My first wife was Japanese, and we talked about sharing her, an idea I could tell she enjoyed, but she always said she would never do it. So I never pushed it. Until she turned out to be a very manipulative monster and was manipulating my life into a direction I did not want---she wanted to create an English school and was trying to sabotage my career in the stock market. I was always very bad at breaking up with girls, and I realized that I needed to get out of that relationship. So I did a little manipulating of my own and introduced her to a friend, a French Consulate, who could be her friend while I moved to Tokyo for a new job as an analyst, but while she had to stay in Osaka to continue her job as an English teacher at a Junior High School. Long story short, they had an affair for several months, and he would share the details with me. But I never got to have sloppy seconds. They would meet once a week on a week night, and I'd return to Osaka, horny as hell, on Friday night. I thought that maybe they might fall in love and then I could break up with her without breaking her heart. It back fired of course---the first reason, which I already expected, was that I could hardly wait to get back to Osaka and have her. The second reason was that my friend had a Japanese girl friend who was in France. I did not know that. After the few months of their affair, he called it off because his girlfriend was returning to Japan. My wife did not know that I knew what was happening and she never told me, but after the divorce, the last time we had sex, during an afternoon in a love hotel, I told her I knew and she shared the details from her side. But no sloppy seconds---first of all they always used condoms, which is typical in Japan, I did coach him on how he could have her bareback---which we would sometimes do a few days before her period, but still I could not return right away to Osaka during the one time they did that.

Anyway, It was probably a year later that I met my current wife. She was also in an unhappy relationship. Obviously a mistress would screw things up, so I hadn't planned on cheating on my first wife. But I was completely smitten when I saw my current wife on the subway. Every date we had, I fell deeper and deeper in love. In fact, our first date, I was thinking, 'what the hell am I doing? I am so deeply infatuated with this girl that it would kill me to not have her. What if she is just playing with me? How am I going to forget her? I shouldn't be pursuing this!' I knew each time I would see her I would be deeper into this potential pit of fire.

But we were both married and still sexually active in those marriages, so as I said, you could say that we started before our marriage. But her husband had started a company that assisted in construction and he started travelling to a province outside of Tokyo for much of the week. And, of course, my wife was still in Osaka. One night we were in bed kissing and naked, and I started to scoot down to eat her out. She stopped me and said, "I need to tell you something. My husband used me today. ...Do you still want to do it?"

I assured her that I certainly did. I did not eat her out, but I proceeded to push my cock into my very first sloppy second. Much to my pleasure a long held fantasy had been fulfilled.

Afterwards we talked about it. I did not like her husband. He was a rival to my desire to spend the rest of my life with her. But I told her how hot it was to experience that. I think she enjoyed it as well. There were many times when we would meet after she had sex with her husband. She did not get the same enjoyment if I had sex with my first wife, but...

 

My girlfriend had watched me with a couple of different women, and had always said she wanted to try another man. She heard from her girlfriend about this guy so she knew he was well-endowed. I thought it might have been kind of a pay back for me being with other women. But it all worked out I knew when seeing others she was going to run across a big one some time or another. Hell the guy had a nice personality thanked me for sharing with him, I wanted to thank him for pleasing her

 

you are a lucky dude! I am envious.

 

So true of couples we knew. We tried to be discrete about playing with other couples and a few singles in our hometown. But many couples we knew were in cheating relationships.