My wife with other men

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by candaules, Sep 2, 2010.

  1. Ivory62

    Ivory62 Senior Member

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    Some men, perhaps. I couldn't do it. More power to those who can.
     
  2. sexdoc601

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    their is noway I would want to share my wife! I just couldn't do it! But hey if that's what you like.
     
  3. Cherea

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    I enjoy the fantasy of both being a bull, and being with a girl to whom I am a priority but who has other partners.

    Super hot.

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    Interesting suggestion. I read the synopsis, and he still seems to only consider sexual selection. I wonder if he discusses gangbangs, and whatnot, as evidence that some females are wired not for hypergamy (richer and richer partners), or sexual selection (stronger, taller, emotionally committed partners), but also for sperm competition. In which females have sex with as many men as possible, and competition is begotten at the level of the sperm.

    The latter's the only competition for females I'm interested in, btw. :biggrin:
     
  4. enhancer13

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    Well then I would suggest you don't! It is not for everyone. It takes a really secure and confident person to do it.
     
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  5. Dancing til Dawn

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    I really cannot see the turn on, I have friends that tried it recently after 20 years of marriage and when she confided in me she told me she regrets every moment. She has not connected with her husband properly since, it will take time to get over the experience for her . She tried it for him and his desire to see her with another lover. She said she liked the idea of it too, but in reality it was very different.

    I feel something is seriously lacking in your sex life if you want this to occur. Not for me, either way.

    Doesn't mean a person is insecure just means they love there partner and can't bear to see them with someone else which to me is perfectly natural.
     
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  6. xxaru

    xxaru Guru of Porn

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    It's just sex. Some people place WAY too much value on the act. I wouldn't have a problem if my girl wanted to fuck another person. I'd only take issue if she developed feelings (a relationship) with them. I don't really see sharing the physical pleasure of sex as being that big a deal. It's the emotional connection that I value. But perhaps I'm wired differently than most.

    That being said, I've still never really fantasized about the idea of envisioning or watching my girl fucking another guy. Like I said before... I don't really get the fetish, but that could be because I'm not married or in a marriage type situation. And so glad I'm not :)
     
  7. enhancer13

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    I agree it is not for everyone! Only couples that both partners are on the same page and have the same wants should do it.

    I also was not trying to say people that don't do it are insecure! Just saying if you are doing it you need to be secure with yourself and what you have with your partner.

    One thing I do disagree with you on is peoples sex life lacking if they are in to this lifestyle! Myself and my lady have never had a sex life near as good as the one we do now together. Not even close. The other couples we have played with also felt the same about theirs. Anyone going into it to fix something that is not good is going into it for the wrong reasons.
     
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  8. GnarlyCouple

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    I knew my wife for a couple of years before we got together.and was aware of just how promiscuous she was. To me it was neither here nor there as far as I was concerned.
    She split with her husband and we moved in together and made it a thing. We were very happy. About six months in I started to find myself getting excited when I thought about how slutty she had been and started to raise the idea of her fucking another guy. Her reaction was lukewarm. Her issue was that once you do something like that you can't take it back and what's done is done. It could damage our relationship irreparably.
    To make a long story short we picked a friend of ours and got him drunk and Christine offered herself to him and it was on! I can still remember what it felt like to slide into her right after he barebacked her. I was hooked. Our friend fucked her quite a few times until he feel too far into alcoholism. That was that but I had developed an appetite. Sloppy seconds. For months I tried to get her to hook up with someone and she would say "Who?". I had no answer. It was frustrating.
    She was going through a nasty divorce and had a phone recorder hooked up for when her ex called. On night the phone rang an as soon as she picked up she acted very secretively and out of character. You better believe that I got that tape and put a new one in it's place.
    The next morning after she went to work I played the tape. It totally blew my mind. There was an older man talking so dirty to her in the most familiar way. He was her sugardaddy/pimp. She had been fucking all sorts of people all over the place. At first I was angry and hurt.but the idea that I had a true slut for a girlfriend and that she would literally do anything for me I started to see it in a different light. He was able to arrange all sorts of activities with all sorts of people under all sorts of circumstances. It was FANTASTIC!! I was able to be present at times sometimes not. It just depended. She has spent the last 30 years fucking and sucking men and a number of women too. We have "lent" her out to different groups for their use.
    She gets off on being used for sex and I get off on it as well so it has worked out wonderfully for the two of us. I wouldn't trade it for anything.
     
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  9. Blade007

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    First off, I would like to say that I believe am one of the luckiest men alive, to be married to one of the most beautiful and sexiest woman I have ever met. Not only this, but she is someone who I can honestly and openly discuss absolutely anything with and have often shared fantasies with each other. Something I have always been particularly fond of doing as I find the thought such a turn on.
    One of our most common shared fantasy was for my gorgeous wife to enjoy the fruits of another man. To truly let herself go with someone for no other reason than mutual pleasure. Well I am lucky enough to know that she did just this and has told me all the details, of which was with my full encouragement and approval.
    Whilst discussing such a fantasy many years ago, my wife told me that there was someone at work who she quite liked and knew the feeling was mutual. My wife told me how a friend of hers had also dated him a few times and that he had a nice thick cock, but was also a gentleman. Right then, she announced that there was a staff party coming up to which they were all staying overnight in a hotel. I couldn’t wait…..
    The day finally come where she was packing an overnight bag and getting ready to drive to the venue. I knew she had a couple of revealing tops packed fully intending to seduce her friend. I encouraged this in every way possible, but said I didn’t want to get her to do anything she wasn’t completely comfortable with. She kissed me intensely and hugged me lovingly before leaving. She asked several times, “you are sure, aren’t you”, I reassured her lovingly and said nothing would give me deeper pleasure than to know a fantasy of hers has been fulfilled and it has brought her deep unadulterated pleasure. I patted her on the backside and said “please enjoy yourself without any worries”. “I love you so much, we both said at once” and off she went with a smile.
    I received a text to say that she had arrived safely and that they were all in their rooms. They were just about to all meet downstairs for a drink as the party was about to begin. “You are sure aren’t you” she asked. “Yes, please have a wicked and enjoyable night” I replied.
    As the night progressed, we exchanged several messages and it was clear that things were going well. She kept asking me if I was sure, to which I always responded encouragingly. He was giving compliments like saying what a lucky man I am to be married to such a beautiful woman. (I agree, I am). That was when my wife told her friend what we had discussed and he was initially a little surprised. Once it had sunk in that she wanted him and that I wanted her to be pleasured by him, he turned around and said many couples like doing things like this. It’s completely natural. The ice was broken and they joked and fooled around a little. My wife messaged me saying she can see the bulge in his trousers and am I still sure. I made her promise me that she would enjoy herself and have a great time.
    The bar had closed and everyone started to return to their rooms. My wife was given his room number and was told that he will be waiting if she would like to join him.
    My wife waited a few minutes until she was sure other colleagues had retired for the night. She dressed seductively in her naughty bed time attire and proceeded to his room. It was apparently a long way to his room which was the other side of the hotel. Nervous that someone might see her, but so excited for what was about to come.
    His door was unlocked and she walked straight in. He was sat on the end of the bed waiting for her. She kissed him deeply and reached immediately for his bulging cock. “Tonight your cock is mine”, she whispered in his ear.
    Obviously, they both had a great night and what happened in that room deserves another thread all of its own.
    The next day at breakfast, a couple of people had noticed how well they were getting on the previous evening and might have even guessed they got together. He asked if she was ok at breakfast like the gentleman he is, to which she said “ Amazing. Thank You”.
    My wife has met him numerous times over the 15 or so years since and is always very exciting for me as well as her. My wife’s confidence has grown no end since and now she understands how much I love hearing about her encounters, she always tells me about their meetings and what they do. We are trying to arrange a meeting soon, but he lives quite far away, so not always easy.

    To my wife…. I want you to know that I love you so very much and how I love to encourage you. It brings me so much pleasure to know that you have enjoyed another man. Please don’t ever stop being you and enjoying the pleasures that life can bring to the open minded. You are absolutely gorgeous and I love you now more than ever.

    Before publishing this story, I have let my wife read this first, so that I know it’s factually correct and that she is ok with me publishing one of
    her adventures.
     
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  10. 6Sailor9

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    Lovely! Love it! Thank you both for sharing!!
     
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  11. rookie67

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    am older couple and i have e.d. so i use toys on her and oral, but she misses the real thing. need a man willing to cum party with us and after she is used to you i will be kissing her and you fuck her until you cum on her but then i finish her off by licking her all over. she is 62 yrs old so...
     
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  12. olderndirt

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    My wife had fucked other men regularly when we were in college and I only saw her once or twice a month. After we had been married about 10 years and in our 30's, she was receiving a lot of flirtation at work in a medical office. I asked her if she missed the variety of sex she once enjoyed. She didn't answer, but I told her she could have sex with others as long as she told me about it, condoms were used, and she only had one "date" with each man...no affairs. She did it a few times and then decided not to do it again after she turned 40. I did not push her, but I did give her a few condoms to keep in her purse...just in case.
     
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  13. nympho man

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    I have shared my wife many times. Sometimes I have participated and others she has been alone with the other guy. I enjoy it very much. Sloppy seconds are addictive.
     
  14. Harry7272

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    Love to watch or u watch me
     
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  15. straightma1e

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    My wife fucked other men twice that I know of. Each time after the deed was when I learned of the trysts. Didn't give her permission but didn't hold it against her either. We both feel it is up to ourselves to enjoy the pleasures of life including sex with others. The last opportunity with her came and went without her going to bed with the other man. Instead she came to me, explained the desire, but also wanted to avoid it, which she did.

    On the other side I had a fuck buddy for several years whose husband didn't or maybe couldn't have sex. She hooked up with me in order to sate her sexual desires. I never met her husband much less knew him. I could have passed him in the grocery store or anywhere else and wouldn't have known he was the one whom I was fucking his wife. She did tell me that he knew she had a lover.
     
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  16. rookie67

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    must cum on her instead of in her so i can lick her
     
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  17. Alice in SC

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    That's what my Husband says!
     
  18. Harry7272

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    Thats sexy, ill cover her clit
     
  19. Fubar59

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    Many people loosen up when they get away from their normal surroundings. Go a mini-vacation away from where you live. Encourage her to bring some sexy clothing with her. Do some research on pick-up bars in the area you are going to. Buy some condoms, just in case. Getting away from where you might run into someone you know and staying in a hotel can lead to possibilities...
     
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  20. rookie67

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    i would love that
     
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