My wife want to cheat

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  1. Varmint

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    Hmmm.... "Gee, honey, I just can't wait 'till we are married so we can practice celibacy!"....said nobody ever.
     
  2. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Well, said no guy ever ;)
     
  3. Varmint

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    You may have a point. But I'm pretty certain no woman ever said it to a guy's face, 'cuz she knows that if she did, she'd stay single. Fact is, there is nothing else a guy can do with a gal that he can't do without one.
     
  4. Varmint

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    Aaannd this is why I haven't been interested in wasting my time on any women in the last 13 years. Not even a date.
     
  5. Eric!

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    I really don’t know what you want. It’s clear she’s good with it, but YOU can’t make up your mind. I say “NO” because you are not completely on board with it mentally. It may excite you, get you all turned on and you seek release from the excitement, but you truly don’t want this. So, I say again, “No”
     
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  6. I'minmyunderwear

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    pornhub has some great educational videos you should watch.
     
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    I would say YES but that would be under my own circumstances and would be doing the same.
    A little outside spice can certainly add to things but just as easily spoil the broth.
     
  8. Jessica Allen

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    Hmmn, i read your story and it sounds familiar though. Nevertheless, i feel you should let go of such suspicious thoughts about someone you truly love and care about. It's either you love and completely trust them of not, if you are in doubt and really want to clear your doubts, hire a PI. Going further in a relationship with paranoia is bad for both parties, better to be sure now than never.
     
  9. _Quinn_

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    There's multiple things really wrong or about to go wrong if a wife or husband more so the wife, decides that cheating is the way to go... and the husband wants that.
     
  10. curiousgeorge

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    Not really cheating if they both want it and they will be far from the first to do so.
    Might as well be a yes, since she's going to get herself fucked anyway, eventually, with or without his blessing.
    Then it will be cheating....
     
  11. curiousgeorge

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    Good chance he's about to be cucked but good, with the way thinks are looking now.
    Maybe not so bad on his eyes though and come to think of it, with her being afar, for the most part.
    This kind of separation, seldom works in a marriage anyway.
     
  12. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    That's the bottom line.
    What kind of marriage is it when the partners see each other once every 6-8 months, anyway?
    Sounds like they literally live in different distant countries and this has been going on long term!
    That's different from if one has to do on deployment or something. SMH
     
  13. WOLF ANGEL

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    Oh no, I must have have missed the result
     
  14. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    Haha maybe it was a deadly mistake.
     
  15. Piobaire

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    I think lifetime monogamy is inherently unnatural, and therefore a deeply unreasonable expectation with which to burden ourselves, much less each other. If lifetime monogamy's a tall order, long periods of celibacy even more so; masturbation is a damned poor substitute for another human's embrace. In long distance relationships, I should think that if two people truly love each other, they will have great compassion and a liberal allotment of charity for one another's humanity.
    Jealousy doesn't show how much you love someone; only how insecure you are. A ménage à trois or occasional lover isn't really relevant, as relationships are much more than sexual; they might leave regardless if you haven't given them good reasons stay. If you really want a relationship to endure, worry less about them leaving you, and spend more effort and attention on cultivating the kind of relationship that gives them irrefutable reasons not to.
     
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  16. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    Bottom line being sexual activity is one thing and love is another. I liken it to any other activity people undertake with others, whether partnered or not. Obviously it's not a fools game but if unintended consequences are mitigated then it should be a wholesome and healthy activity. People are increasingly accepting the fact that we are biologically driven to get off with people we have no sense of long term intentions with. Pairing up is a great way to tackle the challenges of life and share our most intimate selves and those successful relationships are built on a solid foundation of trust. This however does not need to include a promise of monogamy. These promises are more often broken than kept so not making them allows trust to be maintained when getting some from others. And being honest of course.
     
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    If your wife wants to have sex with someone else and has the courage to tell you, then say yes. My wife back in the day said something while we were out at a friends wedding. We were drinking and dancing. She saw a guy who we new to be single. She pointed him out to me and said, “He’s pretty hot.” I said, “Oh yeah? Think so?” She said, “Yeah. I want to fuck him.” I said, “You do?” She said, “I want him to bend me over and make me scream. You want to watch?” I said, “Watch you have sex with him?” She said, “Yeah. Watch him cum in my pussy. Watch him make me squirt. It would be hot for you to jack off watching me.” And she indeed did. She started dancing with him. She whispered into his ear then they disappeared. She texted me, “We are going back where the bridesmaids dressed. Door is open.” I walked back and she was on her knees sucking his dick. It was so fucking hot.
     
  19. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    Love that attitude! I just wouldn't consider jacking off when I could lick her after he unloads and have sloppy seconds unloading in her right after.
     
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