Did your wife have anything to do with your bi escapades? For years my wife wanted me to let our friend give me a bj, because she couldn't anymore. I finally caved and let him give me a bj., while she watched. Then she asked why I didn't do anything to him, then she said that I should return the favor because he needed it, as much as I did. She just about shamed me for leaving him hanging. He never asked for it, but she spoke on his behalf. This is something that really turned on her and I knew it,so I went for it. No Regrets. Sometimes I think that she enjoys watching me to it, more than I enjoy doing it. I will admit that having her limited involvement is what made it more exciting to do. I think that I did it more for her, than myself. Seeing her intense enjoyment adds to the pleasure. I can't complain because its better than being on my own. If she only felt that way about me being with another woman. I asked that once and she told me to be satisfied with what Im getting. It's become an enjoyable exchange.
At first no...I was open to her when dating and told her of my past oral encounters with other married men. She was interested in watching and when she did she said she was overly excited and thought it was so hot to watch. She then would join in, then suggested I receive anal...My wife doesn't do anal but loves watching me getting fucked while I'm on top of her 69 position...she'll lick and suck Tom's balls when he's balls deep inside me. My wife was clueless to bisexual activities and earlier this year has become bi as well since Tom's wife started joining our adventures earlier this year.
I was up close, on my knees, watching my wife suck a guys dick when she put her hand behind my head and guided my first dick into my mouth
I was single when I started sucking cocks. Seeing a hard one through a glory hole made me curious so I tried it. And I liked it. Years later, a bi girlfriend liked to watch me suck cocks but by then I liked performing before an audience. That my cock sucking thrilled her was just a bonus.
Same situation during one of our MFMs with our friend. Up close and watching, and wife pointed his cock at my face. I really wanted to suck him (for the both of us) but he was as straight as an arrow, and I did t want to freak him out and ruin the MFM experience or possibly change our friendship forever. Looking back I regret not doing it. Should have had my wife sitting on his face while is sucked him..
All you have to do is Ask. If it was a spontaneous encounter for him, you could have asked your wife to ask. He would be more accepting if she said she wanted to watch, while she is sitting on his face
About 7 years ago I fell into this situation between marriages. I answered an add on Craigslist posted by the woman of a m/f couple searching for a guy for a threesome to do her together. No m/m interaction other than cocks rubbing together while she sucks both. Photo was required so I send one as I'm interested, she was pretty hot. Arrangements are made and I meet them at their house and their anxious to get started so off to the bedroom we go and she's gobbling up our cocks, she's wanting two cocks real bad as she slapping her face with both, licking, sucking...the full nine yards. Then she gets on top of her man (69) as I'm standing at the foot of the bed so she's still getting two cocks. This goes on for a bit when she motions me down...I get on my knees and she points his cock towards me so I take him in my mouth as she's playing with his balls. After about 5 minutes he cums in my mouth and she pulls me in for a snowball kiss...was awesome. We went on to fuck her in numerous positions for the next 90 minutes. The guy never knew it was my mouth sucking him or the mouth he shot his load into. She and I both loved it.
I should correct myself. I wouldn't say shamed as much as she said I would be foolish not to at least try it with him, than to look for a stranger if I was so inclined. "Plus, he did it to you and he was left to take care of himself", she said. I told her that he didn't mind. Then she told me that he only said that because he didn't want to scare me away. He did enjoy giving me an occasional bj. side note: My wife insisted that she gets to watch when possible.
Never crossed that line, but if I did having my wife insisting I do something kinky would no doubt influence me. Truth be told- knowing my wife got off from watching me do something taboo would be a turn on.
Perhaps he knew and said nothing and simply enjoyed it, but it was exciting to think he didn't and just received his first male blowjob without knowing. It was exciting for me.
My wife when we had threesomes a couple times wanted me to and other guys suck each other but I refused in my 2 ex-girlfriends also wanted me and the other guy do something each other but I refused. I was really curious that's why I was having an mmf threesomes. I regret not doing it now.