OK, according to her survey of her other girl friends, women don't really like giving a guy a blowjob, and especially don't like it when the guy cums in their mouth. She says all of her friends agree that it's just not something they enjoy - just a chore to please their man. I don't know though. I've had girl friends give me blowjobs in the past, and they sure didn't express any qualms about it. I had one girl lick the cum off my stomach. I didn't ask her to do that, she just did. One girl friend sucked me off and I'll never forget seeing her smile as I came in her mouth. But according to her, girls just do it to boyfriends, not husbands. They were all just pretending. Personally I have a bit of an oral fixation. I love to eat pussy (as long as it's clean!). It's a real turn on for me. I've been with a guy before, and loved to suck his dick before he fucked me. Just got me in the mood for sure. Getting my own dick sucked is nice, but not the be all end all for me. So what say you hip women? Do you like to suck your guy's cock before sex? Do you like it when he cums inside your mouth?
There are some women who do not give blowjobs, and I have found it has a lot to do with where they're from. I know for a fact that many Jamaican women (and men) don't do oral sex and find it to be "dirty."
There are some women who will not give blowjobs or swallow.... and I say bon voyage. This sorta crap about giving oral sex should be like a contract women have to sign before marrying, so they can't just turn around and be like 'oh you know how i did it for years? NOT ANYMORE DUMBASS!'
Like anything...it just depends on the person. Some women like it, some don't. But I don't get guys refusing to go down on their ladies....like....WHAT?! I love to do it and I've never been with a woman who didn't love getting it.
The OP's wife is a prude, at least one of her friends is lying, and none of those know-it-alls is allowed to squawk for me. I love sucking dick, and can even think of two occasions where sucking the dude's dick was the best part of the evening. I like swallowing my guy's jizz. I do it as much for me as for him. I don't expect every woman to agree with me, and I resent women who try to speak for all women.
I enjoy it. Nothing about it bothers me at all. I actually enjoy giving more than receiving but I never turn that down either. It's just like everything else. Some people will like doing it and some people won't.
I think there are probably some women who just don't don't like sucking dick, but I don't think any of my friends fall in that group. I think the majority of women like the idea of sucking dick to please their guy but I think the majority also feel totally self-conscious about their BJ skills. I like it, but to be honest I get bored with it in about 5 minutes. Given the choice to suck his dick or to be fucked, I will choose the latter. Fortunately, my husband feels the same way. As for swallowing cum, let's face it, most women despise the idea. Most of those women who do swallow cum probably do it to please their guy rather than because they desire the taste. I suppose there are some who actually like the taste, but for most women the combination of taste and texture is too much. I used to hate it. Now I'm neutral to it. If he likes it (which ALL guys do), then I'm happy to make him happy. I think all of my friends probably fall in that group. I think there are a lot of idiot guys out there who think because guys like the taste of pussy, girls must like the taste of a guy's cum. Wrong guys! Girl cum is sweet and delicious. Not so true for guy cum. The taste of pre-cum, however, is amazing. If it all tasted like that I would be begging to swallow.
I generally like it because I like looking up and watching a guys expression. It all depends on the guy though. Abusive, self-serving jerks get old fast. Oh, and cleanliness matters hugely.
Haha oh yeh, I remember once my girlfriend at the time complained about my cleanliness. Ever since then, I fucking wash down there immediately before if I even THINK I'm going to get a blowjob.