I continually pay the price of my wife’s scorn for watching porn. I liked porn long before I met her, she just goes off the deep end in rage. I have trouble understanding how some women can make porn be, escorts or just really open sexually with no issues or hang ups. Do you realize how much sex group and otherwise goes on in college these days? Monogamy is boring. I am in good shape my cock works like a champ with the help of a little blue pill and sometimes without it. It’s my addiction I love pussy, fucking eating and even rimming a sterilized ass. Getting my dick sucked and cumming all over a womens stomach and tits. If she let me cum in her mouth all the better.
I can understand your concern of your wife's lack of interest in porn, we all like to think of our wives being addicted "sex pots" however, time changes everything (a common phrase but true in the case of sex) My wife was really into everything I wanted when we first met, then with marriage, children and now grandchildren she views me as a "dirty old man" and I readily agree with her astute description. However my wheels have fallen off! I have succumbed to having prostate problems and the medication I have to take has taken away my sexual libido! A harsh reality of old age in a good percentage of men. So now I am not so up front about my dealings with other women, and my wife's lack of interest.
Its not yesterdays porn where women were used and degraded. I told my wife the same thing and to grow up. Pprn is pretty much mainstream today. Find her something she might like.Anything she wants.
True there are some Female friendly porn sites out there .A bit more seduction and heavy on the sauce but less on the graphic stuff .
It’s not a lack of interest, she vehemently hates it. I get excoriated for my liking it at all. Was she there when I went to the drug store as a 18 year old when I asked a cute women sell me Penthouse magazine and gave me approving naughty look? Was she there when I came like a race horse over the centerfold. No. She has contempt for me because I am in good shape and she has let herself go and blames me for her over eating. My desire for porn is rooted in something deeper. I tried to be the good Christian, now I realize I lost out on a lot pussy trying to be good. I cannot get those years back. Now I go an Asian massage parlor where the massage therapist gives me a happy ending with glee. Then smiles and thanks me and helps to dress me. I hope I am not heading for a divorce because that’s expensive. It’s like that country song”It’s hard to kiss the lips at night that chew your ass out all day long”.
Hmm there must be other things that have kept you two together over the years and quite a lot of women have no interest in porn! So you must keep your interest in porn private, as you cannot expect your wife to follow your porn addiction. I had to laugh at your mention of divorce being expensive, it is, but only if you have lots of money! if you have none then expensive it is not. So the Asian Massage therapist is not expensive? ( I am married to an Asian partner for over 40 years and she is very expensive and I don't get regular massage either) There is a common saying that if you "want to know what your wife will be like at +50 take a look at her mother" Our genes seem to follow generationally. I wish you all the best with your liking of porn but don't take it out on the wife.
Women are wired differently. I’ve watched some on a limited basis with all four of my LTRs. My first gf had never seen one so we went to an adult theater in a nearby town. This was about 1980 so no internet or dvds. She thought it was hot. Went another time but the flick literally sucked. Next gf lived with me and tolerated it. My now ex wife initially liked watching together but that faded too Current wife of 20+ year had never seen porn (we married in our late 30s). She was curious. Rented a pretty generic MF porn and it turned her on. Watched it together and had sex about half way through. Eventually we would have a porn night a couple times a month where we would alternate choosing the theme. We covered all the bases between us. Surprised me when she requested lesbian and gay vids….surprised how turned on the gay ones got her. Mine tended more towards swapping and mfms. We eventually had a few great mfms with our friend, and she had a one nighter with a married bi friend of hers. Then EVERYTHING stopped. No porn, no extracurricular activities….even our normally great married sex started going downhill. She later asked if I still watched porn. I said “ yes….it’s the only sex I get”. She blew a gasket. Yes I still watch it in private. She is suspicious but we don’t talk about it.
Yes they are wired differently and many tend not to like graphic sex descriptions nor scenes . Thats how I can tell a Fake Female Catfish and we do have those types on here as many true females dont hang about in the graphic Sex Threads nor post graphic descriptions in their own posts . Women from my experience like sex of course but they like the love and romance part before . Hence Romantic Novels are popular . Many know what guys want and tend to want sex on their terms .If your lucky enough she will tease in lingerie as well. To back up my first point I have had a couple of informal complaints /comments from ladies on here about Sex Posts flagging up in the New Post Section on the front page . This I have taken forward with Admin to see if anything can be done .
IMHO the wife overeating and you loathing on porn could be more similar than different. I say this only to help you see the situation in that perspective. Relationships need boundaries and mutual respect I wish your situation improves, best regards
My wifes attitude changed when she saw it went the other way too . Womens porn sites put a differnet perspective on things.
Is your situation with your wife improving? You should be patient and please don't rush to impose anything on her. My advice is, gentle consistent persuasion might work. You should be patient and a lots nice to her. If you need pm me.
I am lucky enough that my wife enjoys sex, less than she used to for sure (58 yo) but more than most gals her age, and she enjoys mutual masturbation which is awesome. BUT... she despises porn. Hates it. Wants absolutely nothing to do with it. Mostly I believe it is due to her first husband who insisted on having it on during sex. So I believe when she got out of that marriage years ago - she vowed never again.
The porn industry has always been geared towards men's tastes as they will be happy to spend money to get their sex kicks .
We as people , should not be gender labelled , or pigeon holed sheep judging our tastes in exploring ones sexuality on any legal porn content or any face to face sexual encounters Watching porn or thinking about it , fetishes , kinks or primal desires solo or as an unconditional couple , exploring ideas , does not define us individually or as a couple , ones values , qualities and integrity ... There's enough nasty shit going on in this world than to rinse and repeat that porn is evil !!! "Same old song" Fucking grow up ! So as adults we just shut up shop don't have sexual thoughts or sexual pleasure after having kids and building a home to provide , divide and deprive ! No porn ! No Horn ...LOL ... FFS !
