My Wife Can Not Orgasm From Vaginal Intercourse

After many years with my wife I have found the best way to get her to cum during intercourse is with her riding me while I stimulate her clit with my hand. Once she gets started in an O she can grind her clit on my pelvic bone while riding my cock.

 

I beg to differ.

A vaginal orgasm does not come from the clitoris.

 

Yes, 75% is more like the numbers I've seen cited in studies.

 

Woman are all different. I'm different to my partner. Nothing to get upset about lol. If she's triggered by clitoral stimulation, use that tongue, if she is triggered by penetration, slam it up in her. If she's triggered by sensitive nipples, suck those titties!

 

What about anal? Have you tried that with her yet? She might orgasm from it, you never know.

 

I think that’s pretty normal. I almost always need my clitoris stimulated in order to orgasm. It’s great having something inside me as I think I have a better orgasms when I’m feeling filled up, but the orgasm comes from either me or him stimulating my clit.

 

I love when my wife has a vaginal orgasm. I can literally feel her creaming on my cock.

 

It's been known for decades that fewer than 50% of women reach climax by penetration alone. Thus, if you're worried about your performance you are one of 100s of millions of men in the same predicament, so at least tyou're not alone.

Try this. Go down on your wife until she peaks and as she begins to writhe in orgasm, penetrate her forcefully and fuck her hard and fast as though you were a Soviet soldier in Berlin in third quarter 1945. If that reference eludes you, you're not a reader and thus will never be up to date on what works and what doesn't.

Refrain from ejaculating and a few minutes later go down on your wife again and as she peaks, just slide your penis in slowly and keep it insider her, balls deep, until she indicates that her orgasm has finished. Be very affectionate, kissing and murmuring endearments meanwhile. Repeat as necessary.

You have to experiment with fucking slowly and quickly, ramming it in roughly, versus polite moderate pistoning. Sometimes just holding your penis so that the glans is just penetrating her labia minorae (the inner lips), will impel her to pull you in deeper, at which time you can vary your thrusting according to her wishes. If you keep going down on her, varying your licking, lipping, smooching etc and then fucking her as she goes into orgasm she will begin to equate fucking with coming and you will train her to come via penetration.

It would probably be even more exciting if your wife's best g/friend were sitting behind her, kneading her breasts and kissing her neck but you give no indication that that would be kosher

 

Should do more foreplay before putting your penis inside her.

 

*writes down in special notebook*

 

It amazes me that some people seem to think that good sex is just as simple as pumping up a car tire,
If I was his wife, I would serve up his next roast dinner without any vegetables or gravy and see how he enjoys it. LMAO.
God help my boyfriend if I was a girl.

 

Lol!

I blame some of this on the movie industry that shows a couple going from kissing in the hall after a date, to the woman on her back and the guy pounding her into oblivion. We as the viewers could assume foreplay has taken place, but nearly every movie sex scene shows two people ripping each other’s clothes off and going straight to intercourse.

 

What a coincidence.
Have a look at what I just posted on the lent thread.
For a good example of the reality, also watch Bob Hoskins film Mona Lisa. The girl with the cup of tea in one hand nearly had me on the floor laughing. AND it is EXACTLY what goes on in the sex clubs every night.
Considering giving up porn for Lent

 

I just read it. That’s really true. lol

 

But are you able to get off though?

 

Had gf once that claimed she had only two orgasms ever. I finally got her to rub one out while I jerked off in front of her. It worked, she was only 20.

 

Not every woman reaches orgasm with the penis thrusting alone. It depends on her vaginal and clitoral anatomy. The reason is most of the orgasmic centre is in the head and shaft of the clitoris. If the woman has a prominent clitoris then during thrusting by the penis also stimulates the head of the clitoris and she can reach orgasm. However my experience is we use manual stimulation with my fingers or wife herself and penile stimulation through thrusting we always achieve orgasm most of the time. I allow my wife to orgasm first. Also if the man is innovative enough he can grind his pelvis against the clitoral area of the woman while his penis is inside he vagina in missionary position, it will lead to good orgasm. Good luck with these proven methods.

 

The man has no issues, but the woman can't reach an orgasm, she tells her husband it is because she gets too warm.

After going to see a specialist, he recommended that they have a constant supply of cool air in the bedroom, so the man asks his best friend to waft a towel whilst him and his wife make love.

Begrudgingly, he submits and says yes.

After 20 minutes of love making, the woman is no closer to orgasm whilst the man is nearly finished and wants to hold out, so the friend wafting the towel recommends that they switch places until he is ready to do more. So the friend is now having sex with the woman while the man wafts the towel.

After 2 minutes the woman starts to tremble and lets out an incredible cry as she reaches the most intense orgasm she has ever had.

The man looks at his friend, and proudly proclaims "now that, my friend, is how you waft a fucking towel."

 

Been married 20+ years and my wife has never had an orgasm via penetration. That's my one goal in life now lol to get her to squeal while banging her. She doesn't like to touch herself (some hangup about masturbation) so it's all on me. However, orally I can easily give her earthquake level orgasms stimulating her clit with one or two fingers in the vagina.

Interesting enough is we hadn't performed 69 in years because she just wasn't a fan of it. The other day I said let's do each other for awhile before foreplay - kind of like pre-foreplay. So she climbed on top of me and positioned her crouch perfectly on my face as I then grabbed both sides of her ass and started working it. I played with her clit very little and concentrated most of my time with my tongue inside her lips as I had plenty of easy access. After working each other for a couple minutes all of a sudden she pulls my cock out of her mouth and starts screaming as I'm circling around the outside and inside lips of her vagina and squeezing her ass. That was the first time I believe my wife has ever had a vaginal orgasm and it was hot because of the very reason she was never a fan of it. She finished me off and I later gave her another orgasm this time stimulating her clit. First time I saw her come twice in one session as she was always done after the first one.

 

If one does a little bit of research, one eventually reaches a conclusion that it's not an unusual thing for a woman not to orgasm from penetration only.

This is a good thing because it may then drive one to seek alternative means of satisfying her while ridding oneself of the idea that one must get a girl off via penetration alone.

Personally, I'm already thinking it would be a big challenge to get my girlfriend off, even though it's sort of been proven otherwise in the past. But with my dick, it would be a totally different story and I'm realistic enough to know that. So, it's now a matter of how to go about being creative in terms of pleasuring her, and combining all that with the actual intercourse. I think staying positive and enthusiastic is the key.