My Wife And I Wife Swapped For 8 Years When In Our 20s!

I was chatting with a mate who was a nudist in an established club.

His opinion was that many clubs end up with 2 groups inside it, one a traditional nudist activity and the other a full blown swingers group. He said that many or most clubs evolve to that, they eventually split into 2 unrelated groups.

I am now 83, wife is in a nursing home and I am 100% married to my right hand, which keeps me sane.

 

The club my wife and I attended was a renargrade club made up from members who were sick and tired of all the strict rules "no touching, "even between husband and wife" while naked at the club, no alcohol at the club" at the club they belonged to, the basic rule at their club was, you could do what ever you wanted to do, as long as you did not offend other people, if you did something to offend other club members and it was reported, you would have to face the comity and could be kicked out of the club, as some members were, but it left a LOT of leaway / freedome of go beond normal nudist club rules, w e even had naked dance parties with alcohol allowed WOW, but what ever you do do not offend other members.

 

Are you two still swinging? If so what are the ages of the people you swing with?

 

My in-laws swapped for years and years. It was with a neighborhood group. Wife's father ended up visiting a neighbor, divorced, who wasn't in the group. That was after her mother had played with a co-worker. The two affairs caused a rift between them even though they had been fucking others all along. They separated for about a year over it. When they reconciled it was back to the neighborhood group. Not one of us kids even suspected the antics they were into. They were going at it for several years after we married. It wasn't until my wifes brother reconnected with an old girlfriend from the neighborhood that we found out. The GF knew all about the activities and said she snuck out of her bed and watched a few times. Wife's brother and GF reconnected after mother passed on and father was in a nursing home. Best we can figure their swinging / swapping lasted some 17 years and included at least 6 couples, maybe more. All are now dead.

 

Now that’s a great story. There’s nothing wrong with some family history. It’s now in your family heritage,
Be happy.

 

No we have stopped swinging now, the last 10-15 years were mostly M F M threesomes, I like seeing her having it off with other guys, joining in and going silky seconds, we vertually stopped as we moved into our 70's, then the wife started chatting to a guy in a sex chat room, we decided to meet for coffee at a local coffee shop, I could feel the vibes between both of them, after a lot of beating round the bush I dropped it on them, did they want to go back to our place to play or not, they both hummed and harred and then said "YES", we were 73 and the guy (married) was 53, the wife kept checking the mirror's checking to see if he was still following us all the way home, she did not believe that a 53 year old would be interested in a 73 year old woman (she just don't know us men dose she), he followed us all the way up our drive way and then into the bedroom, the sex was not great but they did the deed and I got my silky seconds, he was on a tight time limit and had to go.
We chatted with him a few times after that (I still chat with him now and then) he was keen for another meeting but the wife said no, enough was enough and I respect her wishes, we will be married 60 years early next year and have had a very good run of playing I think.
Who said age will not weary them lol.

 

I've not had the pleasure of a woman in her 70's but my affair with a fuck buddy who was in her early 60's was the best. Older women who still enjoy sex are a special breed.

 

a special, but very rare breed.

 

For us, it’s seems the younger couples seek us out. My wife is 64 and I am 69. It helps that we are in very good physical condition, active and healthy. We enjoy meeting knew couples.
Back to the question: We are members of a private campground resort. When we started it was a blend of 50/50 nudist/swingers. Now it’s 10/90 nudist/ swingers.

 

I think swapping wife is good thing but next couple is also good ...we did between friends .....

 

At her age your wife must be pretty damn sexy!

 

Love to chat with anybody that has had a mfm threesome, we are considering taking the big step

 

I have had mfm threesomes both ways guys sharing with me and me sharing my girlfriend. I went into it not thinking I was the world's greatest lover, and I had sex with other, so I could not object to her exploring sex with others. Just remember it is for her, and try to make it enjoyable for her.

 

My opinion only. Respectfully, I think your wife and you should do a couples swap first. You both will learn a lot about yourself. With the right couple…there are so many types and combinations of play.
But you both have to be ready and jealous has no place in a swap. Only joy and happiness for each other. My wife and I routinely swap with couples only.

 

I intend making it totally about my wife, my entire aim is for her to love the experience, then I know I will enjoy myself as well

 

I have really no interest in playing with another female, all of our discussions and roleplaying is about adding another male to our sessions

 

I cannot say I have no interest in playing with another female, but my wife said she couldn’t handle me being with one. So we went with MFMs Since I had no problem with her being with another guy.