My Wife And I Wife Swapped For 8 Years When In Our 20s!

I do.
When I was married to my first husband, in the mid 70s, we attended a key party.
The men all put their car keys into a hat or bowl, and each woman would select one.
You went home with the man whose key you got.
I felt guilty when I did that, and didn't do it again.
I'd only slept with one man before my marriage. I'd given my virginity to a guy who was a famous rock star, then when he left to go back with his wife, I knew I'd never see him again.
Bereft, I came back to Connecticut and married a guy who'd asked me a couple years earlier. I stayed with him and had 2 kids.
I met a woman then, and she said she loved me the way she ought to love her husband
I told my husband, and to my surprise, he encouraged me to sleep with her.
Long story short, she had an 11 year old daughter and my husband molested her.
Out he went and I stayed with her about 6 years. There was a place in Greenfield, Massachusetts called the World Eye Bookstore, run by 2 lesbians--Deb and Fran, I think-- and they let us stay with them till we found a place..
That's where I found Jesus and became-- hear me, Zen-- a CHURCH LADY!
I joined the First Congregational Church in Turner's Falls.
While there I met folks from Agape Christian Fellowship Church in Brattleboro, VT.
I moved to Vermont as soon as I could and joined the church. I had found my spiritual home.
My kids and I stayed there until they grew up and made lives for themselves
Now my kids are middle aged, I am an amputee in a wheelchair, and I AM HERE, in my cyber hippie home!
MY ADULT LIFE IN A NUTSHELL.
If you ask me anything, I will tell you the truth.

 

Blimey Angelmama!
I had more or less forgotten I had started this thread, so was pleasantly surprised to see it sort of reincarnated!
I must admit that seeing you around this forum you have quite surprised me with what you have said.
In a good way of course.
For good or bad I don’t see anything you need be ashamed of in the slightest there Angel Sister.
It’s the same with me.
What I did during those 8 years I am not ashamed of in the least, and my only regret is that I never kept a lot of the pictures we took during those years.
I would likely be looking at them occasionally nowadays and having a right drool!

If I may add.
My favourite ‘Swapper’ during that time was with a husband who ran a stripping business who had on his books lots of strippers who he booked into bars or wherever.
His Wife was a stripper, and of course I had many a private performance.
God.
If I could meet her now I would say to her while giving her a social distance hug.
Thank you!
Thank you!
Thank you!

 

I knew a couple of girls who hung out with rock groups. They ended up be passed around to all the band members. And a few of the stage hands.

 

I've heard of those groupies too.
I wasn't one of them.
It was just the one man, whose group had disbanded a few years before.
Anyway, that was a one sided love. He talked about his wife a lot, and after she took him back, I never heard from him again.

 

I think that is a little different to Swinging though.
I think the word for them is Groupies.
I am not knocking them though as each to their own.
Lucky Rock Groups I would say.

 

Great story! It goes to show that you never know who's into this! Thanks Alice

 

I wanted to and would've with my two exes but even though they were both sluts they wouldn't go for it.

 

Between wives, I had a bi GF who lived to swing. Full swap, DP, gang bangs, girl-on-girl, watching guys. She loved it all.

 

Awesome! Even though my first wife wouldn't consider a swap or three way, one time in bed while sharing fantasies, she revealed her fantasy of being part of a large orgy, being blindfolded on her knees and her head on a pillow. Having multiple men come up behind her and one after another fuck her and her not having a clue who each one is. I'd be on board with that!

 

I am in my early 50's with a younger wife and we have our 20 year anniversary coming up soon. We have a happy marriage and have been faithful to each other. With her being younger, she was inexperienced when we became exclusive to one another. Due to circumstances where I had to do much more traveling for my job, the lonely evenings caused me to 'fall victim' to internet porn. While I use the term 'victim' a bit tongue in cheek, I had never been that much into porn, but in this phase of my life, the medium seemed to have snared me in it's grip, which is something I would never have expected. Early along the way, quite by accident or by fate, I stumbled upon the cuckold genre. I was soon exposed to endless videos of husbands setting up intimate dates for their wives. I could never have imagined a husband willingly putting his wife in bed with another man. Even more shocking was the realization that after a few evenings of seeing this stuff, I began to wonder....what would my wife do, and what would I do, if a horny man began taking liberties? Could you truly separate the act of intercourse and love and make it just a physical act? Would the marriage be damaged? I don't know, but it has gone from a curiosity to now a fantasy. I need advise to know which way I should go from this point.
Since I don't get on this forum much, please email me at jpeepers340@protonmail.com

 

I must admit we never did anything like that.
But we would have if we had thought of it!

 

....
One of my favourite things I did in those days was this though.
At that time I worked in Fords plant in Halewood Liverpool, and I had a best mate called John.
Nobody knew about our Wife Swapping, including John but I arranged with my Wife to do this:

I went out for a few drinks with John and on leaving the Pub I asked him if he would like to come back to our place and have another beer.
He said yes.
After we got back I opened bottles of beer for us and sat down in the living room.
After about 15 minutes my Wife came into the living room wearing her housecoat.
She proceeded to come towards John as she was taking her housecoat off.
Underneath was her nighty which she proceeded slowly to take off.
Underneath that she had stockings and suspenders and a lovely deep cup bra which her tits could hardly manage to keep in.
She got to John and started to undress him slowly and stroke him all over and getting his todger out and going down on him.
At this point the three of us went upstairs and of course we were taking it in turn to give my Wife a ruddy good Rogering.
I could go on but you get the grift!
He was with us for 4 hours that night and he went home around 4.30am Shagged out (He had a Wife to go home to who knew nothing of this, and never did)!
I remember that Man could fuck for England!

We only ever did that with John that once.
But I will never forget the look on Johns face when Wifey took off her clothes and started on him.

Happy days!

 

Boozercruiser,

You've mentioned a couple of times that you "would never" wife swap with your current wife.

I'm curious as to what changed from your first marriage until your current one, and how do you view your current wife differently from your first?

Is it that *she* would never want to mess around with another man, or is it that *you* wouldn't want her to?

 

Hi Man.
And thank you for asking those questions and your interest in that part of my life.

Please keep in mind that I was Married at aged 18 to my first Wife and we started to wife swap when I was around 24.
We had been to see a film called Love In Our Time in which couples acted out unusual sexual stuff they did in their relationship.

Love in Our Time (1968) - IMDb

One couple did Wife Swapping. (Swinging nowadays).
When we got home we talked about the film and for a couple of weeks we discussed the Wife Swapping stuff, and decided to try it.
So we put an advertisement in an under the counter magazine for people to swap with, and we received 24 replies.
We started Wife Swapping from that, and continued on and off for eight years.
You must keep in mind that my Wife then was a bit of a Nymfomaniac and was more or less up for anything.

My second and now my third Wife were just totally different Women and perhaps more Lady Like if I can put it that way.
Although I told both my second and third Wife about my Wife Swapping days it never bothered them.

We never did discuss the possibility of Wife Swapping, and I suppose my Love for them, particularly for my third Wife of almost 25 years (on 3rd July) simply meant that I had no desire to do that with them.
Neither would have agreed anyway!

So in a nutshel.
My third Wife in particular would never have agreed to messing around with another Man, and the Love for her meant that I wouldn’t want her to anyway.
A different kind of Love I suppose.
Plus of course when I Married my third Wife I was in my forties, so my thinking had perhaps moved on.

It is very difficult to put into words, but that is just the way it is.

If I can try and explain more then please ask further.

Best regards

Kenny.

PS.
I had some brilliant times back then and I don’t regret any of it.
Wife Swapping is not for everyone of course.
But at that time in my life.
It was!

 

Makes perfect sense, thanks!

 

Did most of my swinging in my 40's. Mostly MFMs in my 50's. Mostly anything I could get in my 60's. Suck an occasional cock in my 70's.

 

We were the opposite to you, we were in a nudist club where their was some swinging going on, I was keen to join the swingers but the wife was not, eventually she gave in and we joined the swingers (I popped her cherry when we were 18, we were 35, married 15 years before another guy got into her knickers) that opened the door to close to 40 years of swinging and M F M threesoms to us.
I am pretty sure if we had not started swinging I would have been caught playing up on the side which could have led to divorce.
We are now 80, still very much in love and have no regretts.