My view of myself (small penis) has held me back my whole life and at 35 I need change

Hi, I have a small penis and I've allowed my view of that to ruin my life (I think)

So when I was 15 I had my second ever (one at 10 for a few days but not real of course) girlfriend and she was pressuring me for sex. Problem is I had already realized I had a small penis and had people do the pinky thing when they noticed the tiny bulge - including my own family which honestly was destroying inside. They're joking over something that isn't a joke at all, people suck

I knew that I couldn't make her happy in that way and finished the relationship and that's the last relationship I ever had, poor lass was crying for ages and so upset. I was close to things happening many times in my late teens and early 20's but through seeing myself as completely inadequate in that way I always made sure nothing happened

Now I'm a 35 year old virgin and oh my god what the fuck am I doing with my life, can you even imagine how awkward meeting someone and trying to just be with them would be let alone the sexual stuff. I don't know about you but where I'm from you get ridiculed for having a small penis and it's completely not accepted. I have done a lot of research and I see there are some amazing stories of people been completely accepting and that's great but there really aren't many and very few in real life or am I wrong?

I'm just a semi-normal guy that is apparently good looking, easy going (shocker) and funny. I guess I just never gave myself a chance - my question is how do I do that now in my situation? Honestly if one more person ridicules me I might snap...if it was someone with a broken arm they wouldn't say anything would they?

I'm almost literally the guy in the 40 year old virgin movie but how do you change your life when you get ridiculed at any hint of an attempt?. Can you imagine my bio on a dating website, hi I'm Mike I'm 35 I love SCI FI, gaming, fighting, comedy and yes it's your lucky day I even have a little willy

You're going to call me a hypocrite aren't you? saying I just ridiculed myself? well where the heck do you think that came from?. It's seriously fucked up, everyone knows but no one says anything (most of the time). There were some lasses that I really liked over the years but many times I caught people doing the pinky thing making absolutely sure nothing ever happened

I love the idea of owning things and empowering yourself completely but it just doesn't work with this particularly sensitive subject, people are meant to love you for who you are but from where I'm standing many people are loving what someone is attached to rather than the person inside that would worship them until their last breath - if just given the chance (if I would give myself a chance of course, I think)

Sorry I know I'm all over the place but hopefully you're getting the picture here. Honestly at the start of this post I thought the self loathing was all my fault over the years but now having thought it through I'm not sure at all.

how do I change my life? thanks

Mike

 

TROLL.

 

I wish mate, if only

 

Why don't you get one of those penis pumps where it's susposed to make you bigger

 

tried one of these, even over time it didn't work but thanks

 

Keep trying

 

I think you are actually more mentally inadequate than physical. Saying that from experience. It may show through your personality. Most smaller guys are growers. They grow adaquently sized to perform. My two positive moments that helped me in feeling better about myself.... 1) go to a nude venue. A beach or nude resort. You will observe that you may moreso be in the norm or at least not the only one like yourself. 2). I am blessed with a wife that informed me that if I'd be any larger than I am, she wouldn't have allowed or done things sexually such as deep throat ing, anal etc. There is always a positive to things.

 

Found this write up on another forum.

Smaller cocks are the best. I like to call them compact cocks. Here are reasons why they are superior.
1. Compact cocks are better for oral sex. Why should I have to train my throat to choke down a big cock? It is so much fun to take a whole penis and even a mans balls in your mouth. I remember the first time I heard More than a mouthful is a waste. That is so true.
2. Small cocks get hard quicker, and they stay rock hard. The big ones Ive been with never get as stiff as the small ones do. The really hung guys stay mostly limp. No thanks.
3. Theres not so much flopping around when you run and have a small one. Evolution wise, it makes more sense to have a smaller cock. Whether it be running or fighting, the small-dicked guys would have the advantage.
4. Guys with smaller packages dont have to worry about sitting on their junk. Imagine how much it sucks to be a hung guy in this regard. That must be so uncomfortable.
5. It is easier to hide an erection if you need to than if you had a big one. I used to jerk off with a guy in the sauna at the YMCA. We both had small dicks, and it was easy to hide our little boners in our towels if someone was coming.
6. You dont have to worry about a tiny dick hitting the toilet seat or your balls touching the water. Yuck!
7. you are naked and need to cover up quickly, you only need one hand to cover your genitals. Maybe even a few fingers.
8. You dont have to worry about your cock popping out the bottom of your swimming trunks or shorts.
9. You dont have to worry that people are interested in you just because of your big dick. Sadly, many people are only interested in hung guys for their size.
10. Anal sex is not as painful with a smaller dick. I will only bottom for compact cocks.
11. A lot of guys with compact cocks are better lovers because they come up with other ways to satisfy t heir lovers. Hung guys are so cocky and just rely on their size.
12.Smaller dicks are just so much fun to play with. Whether it be oral, jerking, or anal, a compact cock will never disappoint.
13. Compact cocks are beautiful. The ancient statues of gods and heroes show the beauty of the male form. You may notice that none of these men have big dicks. Just think of the statue of David. A smaller penis is beautiful and more civilized. Its a shame that the porn industry has made it seem like the big ones are better in some way. Compact cocks are wonderful. Please help me to spread the word and celebrate them. I'd love to hear of more advantages that you can think of.

 

appreciate you taking the time to post that man, I don't know what I'm going to do tbh. Advantages? I genuinely can't think of one USEFUL IRL that really helps me change my life

as for your comment about my personality, just pretty much a normal dude apart from that one thing. It bothers me more that I can't share my personality with someone because I believe I have a good one

 

Maybe go and speak to your doctor about your small dick.

 

case in point, people suck

 

If she thinks your dick is too small for her she may be right but it is not your fault. This video shows a girl putting a liter size bottle of coke up her vagina. Sometimes its the vag that is just way too big.

 

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If she thinks your dick is too small for her she may be right but it is not your fault. This video shows a girl putting a liter size bottle of coke up her vagina. Sometimes its the vag that is just way too big.

 

How small is it? I'm 4.5 inches long and like 2 inches thick. Never had a woman complain about my size or getting her off

 

The deep throat must be great, tho. I envy that.

 

How do you measure your dick. Pointed up, down, straight ahead or what?

 

Every woman is different but most will not think you're as small as you think you are. Most women I've fucked have tight pussies would love your cock. Dont be so hard on yourself and get out there having fun.

 

In a straight line from base to tip.i curve up but don't measure along curve which would give a longer length. Its straight line penetrative distance. The curve may effect girth measuring

 

Wow, she has a huge pussy fair play. My wife is big and can take two of me but that's something else.

 

Get really good at eating pussy. Women love that also. There’s other ways you can make up for it. But still don’t let being small stop you from anything.