Hi My name is Stacey, and I’m going through a lot in my life lately, I feel like I will never be happy again , I lost hope and I feel so desperate. My love life is a mess. At a certain point I felt so happy and I thought that I found the right person to be with, then all of a sudden he changed, he is not the same anymore. he got so distant, he doesn’t talk to me anymore about anything and I don’t know what is going on in his life, and that makes me feel so sad especially when I remember how close we were to each other. Now I feel like he is a stranger to me and I’m not sure how to deal with him, I’m also afraid he could have someone else in his life, he could be cheating on me. I don’t know what shall I do about it? And from where I can get help?
break up ...in 6 months you will barely remember his name......100 zillion people have already done it with awesome results
Or...talk to him about it, tell him what you just posted and get the truth. There may be a reason why he's distant (e.g. stress), or if it is that your relationship is coming to an end...then you will be able to move on (sort of what rollingalong said).
How long have you been together? It sounds like a while.. like katkin said, you need to talk to him, tell him exactly what you posted here.. communication is key in a relationship.. If you feel things are really hopeless and you want to stay together then look into couples therapy.
It seems pretty simple to me. For one don't "guess" what might be and talk to him. Ask him up front. It sounds like there has been no official breakup and he's more or less blowing you off which sucks for you as you're left to your imagination about what could be going on. Put an end to that right now and hit him up for the truth. You don't have to be mean about it but ask him what the deal is, if he's found someone else or if he's just lost interest or what? If he tries to blow you off as you do this then become a little more direct and ask him flat out if there's someone else or if this relationship is done or what. It sounds like he's done and just pulled out in a cowardly way, or he's thrown you major signs and you missed them, or he could be going through some real problems and doesn't know how to deal with them or want to involve you in them. Could be lots of things but chances are it sounds like he's moved on. Only one way you're going to find out though. Good luck
Sounds like somebody is playing a lotta games And I don't think the OP is coming back to reply either...
I've always been there for him; I know him for a long time now, we've been close friends before, then our relationship got more serious.. I know everything about his life, his family, his ex girlfriends everything! and now, it just hurts me the way he is acting! I love this guy, I tried to talk to him so many times before but I think that this just made things worse. It is easy to say that I should move on, but when it comes to doing it for real, that's the hard part!!!
Just do what makes you happy. I don't know your personal business but be yourself at all times and it will be cool. If you not happy with him then try something different/new. You can still he friends afterward even of it's not immediately. Maybe you will get back together in the future...maybe not but just do you and what makes you happy just try not to hurt anyone in the process.
A quote I heard before: If you love him, let him go, If he comes back to you, he's yours forever, If he doesn't, it was never meant to be.
maybe you should just stay in the bad relationship and put up with the abuse....shut the hell up and screw the dude when he needs sex.....your happiness is not important in this equation how does that sound?
Pain is just a feeling and if it doesn't kill u it just makes you stronger. Eventually you realize it's far easier to be happy:sunny:
