I hate my downward curved penis It feels like a curse; I can’t seem to face face-to-face sex with women and it’s shattered my confidence entirely. I can’t even be bothered to look at women, much less flirt with them. From what I can surmise, most women prefer (or are at least accustomed to) upward curved or straight penises so. Those shapes easily allow for cowgirl, sitting straddle and missionary. With my downward curve I can only do prone bone & doggystyle (barely). I saw 2 urologists and both have concluded that it isn’t peyronies. It’s congenital. I can either pay for an expensive penile straightener or undergo surgery. The latter both urologists advise against. I really hate this curve, because it also looks impotent. If that isn’t enough; it leans to the left a bit, so when I enter a woman I have to angle it in a weird fashion. Not cool, nature.
Because it looks impotent? Really? I think you're allowing your own incorrect, emotion-based opinion to make your own situation worse. There's nothing wrong with a downward or upward bending penis. Or sideways for that matter. Most guys are concerned only with him getting hard and either thinking he always will do or panicking when one day he seems less stiff. Surgery should be a last resort but it seems, your doctors have already said as much. :thumbsup: If you have an understanding GF/BF (not sure about which is your pref), the bend won't matter. If they have an issue with your bend, remember: Those who matter don't mind: those who mind don't matter. Unless you have issues with erection or cumming (your own orgasm), there's nothing to worry about. If the bend means you think it's impossible to reach her G-spot or stimulate her enough, remember: There's no such thing as 'impossible': it's only a degree of difficulty. (and there's other options too, like fingers and tongue). Be happy within yourself. BTW, my hot GF, as I've described in other threads; she got her best orgasms from my semi 75% hard cock, when she was on top. In doggy she liked 100% full steam ahead but after I'd cum and was not fully hard she'd still jump on me and it worked for her, with him hard enough to get inside but soft enough to be like a marshmallow massaging her clitoris. (I do hope 'marshmallow' is the same in the US as in UK or that will be misleading). Try not to fret. Make sure you don't let your own anxiety make the issue worse for you. If she/he isn't bothered, why should you be?! And that takes me back to the first saying that's shown in bold.
