I understand the excitement. I'd probably feel the same way to meet Robert Rodriguez. Of course, I'd be planning on sleeping with Rodriguez. I don't know why you shouldn't be excited to meet someone who's work you appreciate. You kinda sound like you're being too hard on yourself though Penny. Oh, and if he's an Ant, RUN!
Yeah, I wish ya only the best Penny. I would go and meet him no matter what Spence... a lot can be revealed through one's work, sure... but it's just a part of their personality... not all of it. People make the mistake of presuming that all of an author's personality is reflected in his work... which is usually not true. It's merely an extension. Like I said, people can only be truly judged by how they act towards themselves and other people. A person may have the most brilliant of ideas, but that person will still be an asshole if he acts as an asshole.
It takes a lifetime to understand a person anyway. There are no certainties. But I think you're more likely to see the real nature of a person by looking into their art then by observing them yelling at a girl scout. Maybe the cookies had glass in them last year. You never know Pavel.
I think a person's art says a lot of what they have inside, BUT this can be something completely different to how they carry themselves everyday and how they relate to people.
I agree.. for instance I know people whose art is quite expressive and in real life they are extremely reserved
if she wants to have some fun conversations and have fun with an author what is the harm? so long as she doesn't get hurt by it, has fun? it's her life, and if it is a positive experience, then, it should be something lauded.
Penny, why would you care if he only wanted to fuck you anyways..you like sex..?? And that picture I posted, at first, I thought the girl was you..LOL=D
btw I didn't see that pic til now and I already said he's not my type at all physically but I like his work very much.. and his personality (or what I think his personality is anyway) we're not getting married or even dating at this point, just going on A date.. besides who cares if I date unnatractive men much older than me.. :tongue:
Oh lucky you !!!! And u said u werent attracted to him physically, but I think he is really sexy....I am extremely jelaous right now. Oh how I envy you. If u sleep with him, then I ll just have to hate u. :toetap:
Dont laugh. I really do have a thing for older smart men for some reason. Give me a doctor over 40 anytime... I need therapy.
he was soooooooo my type when he was my age though.. ..doesn't he look sexy on that pic? look at that hair, I just wanna mess it up, and those lips.. lips like I love. the eyes too, love em. I think I'll have to buy him a wig hahahaha
age is just a number.. some guys 45 are extremely immature, and guys 16 more mature than a guy 53.. but it's true, in general, guys in their 20's are pretty lame.. I never dated a guy much older than me, oldest was a few years older, except I almost dated one of my college professors, philosophy.. in his 50's.. but that wouldn't have worked-out, would have been pretty bad, actually.. he liked me, though!